SPH (small penis humilation)

For those who have the fetish, those that never heard of it or those that dont really understand it.
I firstly want to say that to have the fetish you dont necessarily have to have a particularily small penis. It is probably a bit easier to get sph kicks if you actually have a tiny cock and mine is decidedly tiny.
Often when I post things in this or other similar forums or when it comes up in the flesh and blood world about my small size and the humilation aspect I get reactions that try to assuage the humiliation factor. They mean well but dont understand I am actually am more than ok about having a tiny cock. This is due to my fetish. I even fantasize about it being even tinier and love it if some girl sees my baby sized penis when I have suffered shrinkage. It is massively arousing when a female sees my tiny member compared to another guys much bigger dick.
The best was when I was in a cuckold relationship for a couple of years and I was actually present while other guys fucked my girlfriend most of the time.
I have asked a number of my girlfriends over the years about how I compared to their exes and some candidly confessed that I was much smaller but also said size didnt matter. When I made it clear to them that I was fine with any actual comparisons with me and the other guys they had been with some did admit that bigger was better but prowess was best. They tend to compliment me one way or another with my foreplay skills but some admitted that my penis didnt really rock their boat. Before sph I never quizzed them about such things but in most cases it waspretty obvious they were left a bit unsatisfied. I would still like to get them off at least by foreplay or afterplay because it feels a tad selfish I cum but they dont but I do get a secondary thrill out of my tiny cock being unsatisfactory for their needs - especially if they tell me so.
I recall the reaction by one girl ( who knew nothing about sph or that I had the fetish) She told me my cock was way too small for her as she had only been with much bigger guys before. She saw my cock get very hard while she confessed this and found it extremely odd. I tried to explain the fetish but she didnt really get it.

 

One of my friends sometimes sees a man with a very small cock and he gets off by showing it off. She doesn't fuck him but she enjoys going down on him to his finish. She does say, however, that even sucking him off leaves her not satisfied and she has to suck a bigger one after to make her feel "normal" about it. He loves it when she takes a pic of his little one and shares it. I have one somewhere I think.

 

I think there is a lot of Big Penis Envy. We had a friend who was very well endowed. The thing was he was often referred to as hung like a horse and donkey dick, and he hated it but, he was still pretty proud of it. and never minded showing it off. I know he liked hearing women tell him; he was the biggest they ever had.

 

I can’t say I have a SPH fetish, however I definitely have the proper equipment for it. In grade school I had a group of older girls strip me and all laughed as they ran off with my clothes and it was definitely humiliating. It gave me a life long complex more than a hard on.

I have a rather unique “grower” as if I’ m aroused, I am very much normal size and never struggled to satisfy a partner in fact the opposite. But if cold or nervous it shrivels up to an albino little prune atop a tight little nut sack.

So when stripping off at a nude beach I generally get looks for all the wrong reasons. There have been smirks and giggles but I just hope at some point in the day the warm sunshine will have Willy come out of hiding.
However strange it seems, it was going to nude beaches that forced me to overcome my fear of ridicule. But I am sure I have made it onto more than one iPhone album for further review and laughter. But life goes on.

 

In high school I was pantsed in front of a group of female cheerleaders. ( luckily way before the existance of mobile phones so no pics - however it became common knowledge in the gossip circles that I had a very tiny penis)
I managed to get a gf but not one that went to my school. It was a tough year in HS and I was a pantsing target and suffered a few times more including once at a public pool right in front of a group of girls from my neighbourhood.

 

For men on the small side, how would you go about telling your girlfriend or wife you wanted her to be with a bigger penis? And what if it pissed her off, and she never wanted to see you again. I guess you would have to go about it slowly.

 

My experience was decades before iPhones thank the Lord, but I was called Little Willy for a year or two.
the phones were more recent day on beaches that I suspect I was captured.

Her Being with a bigger Dick: Well in my case, that almost certainly has happened already not many 50 plus virgins around.
Saying I want to watch her with a guy with a bigger dick "really put it to her" that can be a touchy ask for sure....

suggestion: Try and just make a scenario where you have a chance to express the amazement of the size of some guys tool - then pose the question have you ever ? or would you ever like to ?? etc see her reaction and roll with it or back away slowly depending on the response.
My experience; those women that have had a monster dick have most often not really enjoyed it and found it hurt like hell, so there are limits to just how much bigger you want her to go.

My current partner has had a few opportunities that have come very close and a couple of those guys had some substantial gains on me. If you fish around you will likely find my previous posts. So far things have some how been interrupted as we headed in that direction, but the hope of getting back there again still lingers but Menopause plays evil games with our sex lives... if you aren't there yet - get what ya can for yourself, let MR. Big Dick fend for himself... haha

 

The first girlfriend with whom a sph/cuck relationship blossomed with came about after she confessed to cheating. We had an otherwise solid relationship but she was not satisfied sexwise. We got past her unfaithfullness as my sph fetish blossomed after she told me she didnt play away for anything other than sex kick. She said my penis was always too small for her and had formerly been with much bigger guys. This actually turned me on and within a few months we were in a mutually beneficial cuck relationship with a huge dollop of sph.
My most recent gf and I were hooked up for over 2 years but we started off in a semi open sph/ cuck thing. She already knew I has a tiny cock and a previous history and that meant I would be into such a thing. She seldom had long relationships because she was into more open sex life and had a very insatiable lust for sex kicks.
I think I got very lucky with both women but it is going to be much trickier to duplicate. For one meeting someone that is going to be responsive to it in the first place is a very long shot. Hi! I wanna get it on with you but I have a tiny penis and an sph fetish and want to get into a sex life based on that would not be a good pick up line and if I find someone or they find me and we want to start up a relationship the sex bit usually wont come into it until a bit of dating etc goes on. Then perhaps I could judge whether any of that comes into it at all. Shot in the dark really.

 

My female kink buddy who lives in Canada is coming to the UK this summer.
She has told me she is considering aiding and abetting a long held sph fantasy I have had. I have never sucked a cock but for the possible sph kick I have thought often about actually testing the water provided there is a female to watch me do it.
I love the submissive aspect of sucking a guy's much larger penis while being voyed by woman. My kink buddy knows all about my sph thing and has actually seen my tiny penis but thinking of her looking on as I submit to the 'superior' man is extremely enticing and she seems amenable to help me fulfill this fantasy. ( it would be great if he fucks her too but that hasnt been mentioned by me. )
I am still very hetero for the most part so even without the sph thing I would love to see her naked - as for the sph kick from that I got into a cuck lifestyle with my former girlfriend based on it - who knows perhaps I could fuck her too but this is speculating way ahead of something that is only in its early consideration stages.

 

Hope all works out well. Even though I was better than average in size. I had several girlfriends and fuck buddies, who were interested in trying a bigger dick. And I had a male friend who was more than witting to help out.

 

My kink buddy/ sex pal Carolyn visited last month. Disappointingly after she spent a couple of weeks travelling around continental Europe the last week she spent in the UK was in her hotel downed by a bout of bronchitis . Our plans to get together for some brand new sex fun were scuppered. She may be coming back around the end of August for Notting Hill Carnival so perhaps we can fit something in.

 

It very much worked out but not quite like I had expected. My kink buddy indeed returned for Carnival Weekend and a foursome with a bi couple was arranged. I as yet havent sucked a cock but I very much enjoyed another sph related fantasy. The two women watched me being fucked by the other guy.

 

Sorry to hear that you didn’t get the experience you’d hoped for…
It would seem if the other male in the group was up for the m/m interaction it would have played into the mix but not sure how that all played out.
Perhaps still an opportunity to circle back for a three some if the couple was more local…
Sounds like it was a good time none the less.

 

I love it when women tell me I am the smallest they ever had.

 

I have stayed connected to the bi couple and a threesome may be on the cards. He wants to fuck me again and she enjoyed watching him do it before ( she has seen that more than a few times when they hooked up with other guys or couples but she got off on the fact that my penis is so much tinier and made her guy look so much more alpha - he was hitherto usually a bottom not a top)

 

It's not a full-on fetish of mine. But I very much enjoy anytime someone says I have a small penis. The "enjoyment" can range from being sexually aroused by it to just enjoying the thrill of knowing I'm confident about my penis size and not just being unaffected by the comment but being proud of how little I care what they think, yet not saying anything and just keeping it to myself as my own little secret. There's definitely a paradoxical power trip aspect to it, for sure.

No one's said anything overtly or purposely insulting about it in 10 years. And even back then I can only think of two women who -- explicitly and with the conscious knowledge they were saying something most would consider hurtful -- either said point blank that I have a small penis or made a dumb frowny face at it to express dismay at its size.

More often and to this day, once in a while someone (usually a friend) will see it only soft when it is quite small and just harmlessly comment on its size. Not explicitly say it's small. I can't think of a verbatim example. Just a comment on its appearance that somehow intimates they think it's small. And I get a giddy kind of excitement over it. But at this point, no one even needs to say anything. It's enough for me that someone sees it soft (either being nude in front of a female friend/friends or being naked with people who have bigger penises than me when we're all flaccid) and just knowing that even if they don't care, they still definitely think it's small.

However, within the past couple weeks, I have developed quite the love of being seen with a casual erection. But that's a whole other thing for a whole other thread.

 

"I thought you would be bigger." Though spoken over 40 years ago by a woman I had just fucked for the first time, those words still reverberate in my head. Even though she explained to me what she meant "You are so big soft I assumed you would be really big hard." It was like a kick in the nuts thinking she thought I was small. Hence, I'm not sure I could handle SPH.

 

The comments that have torn through me like a butcher's knife all had to do with cumming too quickly. Backhanded remarks about my size never got to me, and especially not after I finally learned how to actually fuck and get women off properly via methods that are no more or less effective based on one's size.

 

No one has ever said they thought I'd be bigger. But several women have been absolutely amazed (and I am not using that phrase lightly) by the difference in my penis soft compared to when it's hard. The girlfriend who made the stupid mean frowny face at it when she pulled down my jeans for the first time used to call it a "magic penis."

The best was my friend Rachel. She's younger than me. At the time this happened, she was 24. She'd seen me naked quite a few times and saw me get an erection at least once when we showered together. She was bowled over that it could grow from a tiny nub to a nice curved medium thick shaft with a big swollen helmet. Like it was a magic trick I could perform on demand.

One night, she invited me over to her apartment when she had a bunch of her girlfriends over for drinks. I show up to a room of about 10 totally fucking trashed 24-26 year old women. I was having fun, though. At one point they start talking about boys and they're trading stories of the ugliest dicks they've seen. And Rachel, who was so fucking hammered at this point, just blurts out that the other girls have got to see my penis, because it's so small but get's pretty big and she's never seen anything like it. All the girls are just looking at me and I figure, fine. Whatever.

I got undressed and they all looked at my tiny soft penis. Barely anything more than the head. Then one of them said, "Make it big!" So I asked for a moment to myself. Came back from the bathroom with it erect and they... were... STUNNED! Hahaha.