Are Older Seniors Asked To Help Provide Sex To Widow Or Widowers?

Since I am the OP of this thread. Here’s another way of looking at sex for our senior population. There are so many seniors who for whatever reason have lost their spouse or the spouse can’t have sex any longer. They fight depression and sadly their quality of life is diminished. That said, I think sex should be discussed with aged openly. Health care professionals should incorporate this into wellness check up’s.
My wife and I will be visiting our elderly friend next month and he is already looking forward to spending
time with my wife. She loves to let him caress and touch her naked body. He does oral on her and she gives him a bj. He is unable to penetrate her due to severe ED. But he does get to watch her and I fuck.
This is great for his mental health and makes him feel like a man again. We are happy to do this for him.
If you have an old friend( Man or Woman), I’m sure they would appreciate some intimate attention.

 

Nice service!!

 

We view it as friends helping a friend. It’s just playful sex and should not be taboo. Sex is mentally healthy. If my wife had a female friend that needed my attention she would approve. It’s human nature to interact and connect with one another.

 

i just read this thread, so nice of both of you guys. You for sharing your wife and your wife willing to play with your friend.

While reading the thread I was going to ask if this was still going on 3 years later, and damn if it isn’t. Well done, tipping my hat to the both of you.

 

Are they that ugly?

 

No not ugly, but not sexually appealing.

 

I have never been asked…but I’m here to help.

 

My fb is 62 bi and hot. For years she has been friends with a gentleman who is now 86. They are both in the same profession which is why they share a lot in common. He is a widower but has a girlfriend but because of medical issues they are not intimate. Anyway for sometime he has been asking to “lick” my fb. She has had countless partners as have i and I say this because we know each others past and sex with us is fantastic. I told her that she should let him lick her and she toys with the idea. She has another guy more our age also wants to perform oral. I find this a major turn on . I have many partners and besides my wife she is the best sexual partner and I think she would knock both their socks off and who knows they might be great at the task. Personally I find it a turn on even if she blew them or let them fuck her.

 

Damn dude

 

I am the OP and that’s what I’m talking about senior men need to feel like a man sometimes.And senior women need to feel like a real woman. It’s only natural and good for their mental health.
Our friend is looking forward to our visit soon. As I have said before… It’s just friends help in a friend, that’s all.

 

I am doing....

 

when I was married to my ex, she had no inhibitions about letting me watch her with her dildo or vibrator. Hell at the time, I didn’t even know she owned any! One night early in our cohabitating days, I returned home after being gone for a couple of days and was surprised to find her laying on our bed, intently, working her dildo in herself. OMG…. I just stood in the doorway, getting incredibly hard, and watching. Eventually, our eyes locked, and she came like crazy! of course I could not get out of my clothes fast enough and I replaced the dildo. it did not take me long at all to fill her. One of the things I liked about her was her exhibitionist kink.
You might just need to take the lead with your wife,and purchase the dildo yourself. I had to do that with my current wife. Found out early in our relationship that she had NEVER masturbated, or had never seen a dildo, etc. so I made it my mission to check off that dildo item. so one night we are getting worked up, and I pulled out the dildo from behind one of our pillows, She was like WHAT? She got over her surprise in a hurry, especially after she came, and I sucked all of her juices off of it. I think I understood why, because during subsequent sex, she would have her first orgasm, and then push me off and lick and suck all of her wetness off of me, and then we would continue. One of her comments was “ I sure taste good on you!”
Good luck man!

 

How very generous of you both. That is true friendship

 

In the past, my wife and I had some adventures with close friends, in a sexually needy situation. One was a close neighbor friend, who was a widow and an old gay friend who has been lonely and on his own and without anyone for years. They were situations that required the need for satisfaction and adventure. The last adventure was with my old best friend. He and I were both in the same boat, in need of sexual satisfaction. It was his wife, who was 73 at the time made the suggestion that her husband and I should just take care of each other. We did. The wife also wittnessed us doing it. Just Friends helping Friends

 

If my wife had a friend in need of some sexual stress relief, she knows I would do it for her. It’s just sex. It’s primal to connect.

 

That's the kind of attitude that allowed us to explore beyond the normal boundries of marraige.

 

I posted elsewhere that I reconnected with an old high school girlfriend who I haven’t seen in about 45 years. I was her first and she then married had kids etc. he sadly passed away about 15 years ago and through chance we started texting and chatting. Anyway we met for dinner a few months ago and have been intimate again. She is about 100 pounds 4’11 flat chested but still very much the pretty and tight body of years ago. She had not had sex with anyone else and eating and being in her tight pussy and pleasing her is mutually rewarding

 

Talking about the provision of sexual services for seniors, in Japan they have special district nurses, who travel round and give older men, particularly disabled men, hand jobs once a week or so. The ladies are well respected for the work they do, as they provide a much needed service to people who are unable to see to their own needs. I believe each nurse has a regular round that she does, with so many visits per day, so that she can be a regular presence once a week. I suppose it also helps that being a nurse, when she calls on one of her patients, if he's ill or had a fall, or any kind of medical emergency, she is literally on hand to provide paramedic services till help arrives.

 

That settles it, I am moving to Japan

 

Ha! Ha!