Meaningless Sex

Meaningless Sex would you indulge or avoid?

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I would have no choice but to avoid it because I cannot even conceive of any sex that I could have that would be meaningless. Something that personal would have to have meaning for me.

 

Maeningless sex is dangerous because it can turn into a meaningless relationship.

 

I say avoid because I am married but I am a sexaholic. I love women and know that if I let myself get into a situation where "meaningless" sex was possible I would have a very hard time turning it down. I am a weak man. But I know my weaknesses.

 

it would mean more to me to have 'meaningless ' its not based on ideals or quid pro quos.....but attraction and bliss reified

 

It's funny how much less meaningful it is after you come.

 

for the most part: avoid... like kilgore said, it's even less meaningful after you cum.... i have had meaningless sex, and it was fun, but honestly not worth it. after my first, sex just got weird for me... at first i thought it was dirty and didn't want to do it ever again, and then i got involved with a guy who would literally get me drunk every weekend so we could fuck. (that didn't last long thank god...) aaand... if i didn't forcefeed feelings to myself for the guy afterward, he would for me... so yeah... *shrug* hopefully i wont get into any meaningless sex situations again.

i'm hoping falling in love before having sex will make the sex just that much more amazing...

wow i think i went above and beyond answering that question.... sorry

 

avoid! avoid! avoid! for me at least... I could never just sleep with someone I didn't know and not love. I'm too emotional

 

Meaningless sex just isn't really my thing..

 

for me, there is nothing that is completely "meaningless" so it would be impossible...I've had sex with people where it was not a heavy romance, but it still meant something.

 

once upon a time i thought sex 'meant' something, once i realized i could have sex without a commitment it saved me a lot of hassle tryin to have relationships with guys that just wouldn't ever work out in the long run. cuz sex is good, and i like it, so yes i've had meaningless sex. love, on the other hand, does mean something, therefore i don't indulge in 'meaningless love'

thank god i've found the love and sex i want from one person - so glad i don't have to date anymore.

 

We'll at one point I did, but i'm no longer single, happy though. There's only so much meaningless sex a person can take.

 

Meaningless sex, no meaning offcourse, but sometimes you need sth like that, no comittment, no anything, just pure fun. Wouldnt you agree that one nite stands are mostly meaningless?????

 

I wouldn't say one night stands are always meaningless, because i have regretted one (or two )

 

Ive Regretted Multi Year Stands More Than Passing Dalliances

 

Well, being that the only person I've ever had sex with is my husband and I can't even imagine having sex with another person, I'd have to say to that I'd avoid meaningless sex.

Like some of the other ladies said, I too am overly emotional, and it took me quite some time to let my guard down and let things progress with my husband even though I was head of heels in love with him and craved such a union (before we were married). I had a lot of guilt, I thought sex was dirty, but that was a lot of my upbringing. I could never fathom the friends of mine who went from one sexual relationship to the next without a shred of guilt or regret (at least, not that they let on) I myself felt that I needed to be in love, feel an exceptional connection before I could open myself up so deeply to someone. *shrugs*

Peace.

 

as long as everyone involved is careful and safe and understands what exactly is going on, i don't have a problem with it...

 

Meaningless sex is an impossibility there is no such thing. No matter how trivial our interactions with people on a daily basis are they effect us even if it is someone just saying good morning or hi. I've often thought about who I would be if I could change one thing, even something as small as the clothes I had on, on a certain day. all the events that have lead up to now have made me who I am. change one thing and I would be a different person. if you have sex with some one even if there is no connection it means something because it contributes to who you are.

 

sex should never be meaningless, it should be fun

 

I'm not into meaningless sex...I've been with two guys, the last one I'm marrying...... I've been with 4 girls though, that was pretty meaningless, but fun none the less. lol