Older men/Younger women relationships

Just curious, when you say interesting conversations, what are the topics that the conversations are about?

 

^Gold Post

 

Older men may be good teacher..my first was a lot older

 

My hunky boyfriend is 15 years older than me. I'm surprised to be dating someone so much older than me but when you find the right person it doesn't matter. We are very in love, have a great emotional and sexual relationship and our age difference doesn't seem to get in the way. He is healthy and we like to hike and have fun adventures that keep life fun and exciting. :love:

 

To some extent age is just a number, and people who get along well and love each other, regardless of if the sex is great or mediocre and regardless of their age are lucky and should rejoice in it. Everyone is different and one person's hell is another person's heaven; People can look at others and be quick to scoff and judge because of their ages, differences or social status but at the end of the day they don't have to live with them. I understand older men's desire for a younger woman and vice versa. It fulfills some void they have and were probably born or raised with. Like younger men who are infatuated with older women. It satisfies a need and the opposite sex is just another aspect of it that makes it exciting for both.

 

I hope he taught you beneficial things that you can apply to your life moving forward and didn't teach you to not go for older men.

 

I was working as a security guard at a retail store. I was 46 and this gal was 20. I couldn’t even take her to a bar for drinks! We survived for 2 1/2 years, before things fell apart. We’re still close friends today, even though she’s married now

 

When I was 44-45, I was living like a wild man after my divorce. I was having sex with women in their early to mid 20s. They were hot and the sex was incredible, but good luck having a stable relationship with women that age (not that I was in position to be settled down).

You're at two different points in your life. You may be set in your career path while a lot of them haven't even figured out what they want to do in life. I'm sure there are exceptions. I found women in their 30s to be more emotionally mature and secure. A ten-year age gap seems to work out well.

 

Over the years I have been fortunate to meet younger women and have maintained friendships with them. I’m not the guy that hits on them but have always been surprised by them hitting on me. The young woman at the tanning salon who wanted to sow her oats, the barista who asked me out, the restaurant waitress who actually put her number on the bill while I was with my wife, three girls traveling together on a cruise I was on with my wife and several others. And of course the woman I meet at the gym. They all were beautiful and intelligent and not only was the sex a learning experience for them but the conversations were stimulating as well. Several have married but several still stay in touch and we do see each other from time to time.

 

I have always been drawn to older men - I am not ashamed to say I have definite daddy issues - I rebel a lot, I am a spitfire, and refuse to submit or be controlled, much like my father tried to do. A lot of the older men I dated, was purely for sex because as soon as they told me what to do, I bailed. Things have changed a lot since then, being now in my mid-forties, I gravitate to men around my age, where the playing field is even. I would never date a younger man though; people just have their preferences. I hope it worked out for you; I just noticed this thread is over a decade old, lol.

 

Everyone in this life has a unique destiny, and to say it's not possible is to also imply that God does not ordain such things, or always does things one way, or one-size-fits-all is how he does it.. and it's simply not true. Too many different types of people all with very different and very unique requirements. I just hope it is truly part of your plan with God and in the blueprints if you know what I mean.. If it's not, then you could end up with problems. Listen to your soul. I hope I helped. Good luck in your endeavors!! ❤️

 

Nice older thread that has been resurrected. I'm 41 but built a wonderful relationship when I was 27 with my present love who is 20+ years older than me. We are soul twins and I've been happier with him than I ever thought would be possible back when I was a teen. I had never really had a serious relationship with a man before we met, just a close guy friend who was my 'first love' but we were not 'in love', just best friends, FWBs. And my baby and I started as just friends online and it only took 3 months for me to be so drawn to him that I couldn't even think about letting go. And he said that he wasn't even trying to relate to me that way because he knew how much younger I was and he didn't want to give me the 'wrong impression', but that was just another thing that drew me in. Age is nothing at all to us. I have no daddy issues whatsoever, not that it would matter if I did, but I have a wonderful father whom I love and respect as much as anyone every could. I just love my baby's maturity and vast experience, and most of all his heart. And he and my dad are like best friends whenever they see each other, which of course is just icing on the cake.

Speaking so much about friends.... I think for any man and woman who can be each other's best friend regardless of age, anything and everything is possible.

 

Beautifully written she’s so true…

 

I guess when a 20 year drop dead gorgeous gal reached up and kissed me (a 46 year old separated guy) near the time clock I was stunned. Yes I could have bragged about the sex, (which was amazing) but the fact we fell in love with each order. For two and half years it was an amazing experience. Alas my divorce became long aged dragged out and she finally gave up. We’re still friends after all these years and when we talk it’s like no time has passed. The best relationship I ever had. She taught this old man a lesson in what love really is.

 

Love is beautiful if both parties know where the other is at

 

Women on average live 5.3 years longer than men, are more likely to live in poverty in old age than men, and are more likely to become caregivers in old age (men are 7 times more likely to abandon an ill spouse than women).
I think dating younger men would serve women better as a long range survival strategy.

 

My first relationship was with an older woman. She was 10 years my senior. In fact the first two women I fucked were both older. Since then it has been all younger women. My spouse, by 3 years. I was in a FB relationship a few years back with a woman 5 years younger than me. Her friend who joined us for a threesome was 10 years my junior. She and I also formed a relationship for 6 months or so. Other women I've had sex with have been anywhere from 10 to 30 years younger. Actually these days, at my age now, any woman I'll have sex with will be younger.

 

I’ve been in a sexual partnership with a married man 30 years older. We fill a desire for each other. It’s is odd but it works

 

After my first wife passed I met a young woman 32 years younger than me. We were friends and maintained a sexual relationship for almost four years. She was professionally ambitious and didn't want personal relationships to thwart her ambitions but loved sex. We would meet 1-2 times a week for sex. No one really knew about it. It worked for both of us until I became emotionally involved with another woman, my current wife. We are still friends but without benefits.