Wife’s accepting you as bi/gay

Curious to know the percentage of married men with family that have active gay or bi/gay relationships and wife’s are accepting ?
How has this journey been ?

hope this also help men open up to wives or gf as well

 

My wife was fully on board with me being bi.

She knew I was bi from the beginning so we didn’t have any troubles of me confessing,etc.

 

Amazing

 

My present wife was curious to hear about my experiences when I confessed to her that I enjoy having mutual oral sex with other married men. Her response was "Really, is that so?". Do tell. I told her that for about the last 10 years of my first marriage she wasn't putting out as often as I needed and began letting other men suck me off which led to me sucking them off as well. At that time, I had a regular guy for some six years that I was hooking up with 2-3 times a week to suck each other off.

She wasn't shocked, she wasn't disappointed either as she seemed to like that I enjoyed sucking cock as much as she did. She did however ask that I do not do so behind her back. She said she wanted me to share my experiences with her present. If I'd do so behind her back (as I did in first marriage) it would break the trust, we need to build. I agreed and the next ten years was amazing as I shared many of my male friends with her.

 

love this …
It’s great that you can bring man home and both can enjoy

I have shared some of my hook ups with my wife and I have recruited and tried before introducing wife …

being open, communicating often and sharing your full experience with hat your going through will make the marriage stronger

 

My wife knows that I'm bisexual. She's the one who got me into it. Once when she was giving me a blow job she started playing with my asshole. When she saw how I reacted she started doing more. Eventually she was using a dildo on me. She said that the real thing felt a lot better I should try it. After much discussion and with her assurances that she wouldn't mind, I tried it. She was right. When I told her all about it she asked if I had sucked him too. When I admitted I hadn't, she told me I should try thatt too. I now wish I had started sucking guys off years ago. I enjoy sex with both my wife and friend weekly.

 

Forgive me if this a bit repetitive on my part. Years ago…. probably 25 years ago when I was first hooking up with my current wife, one night she asked me if I had ever been with a guy. I confess that I had a frequent SB back in my youth. at first, she could not believe it. WHAT? She asked me if I was bi, and I told her no. Me and SB were just a couple of horny “kids“ without girlfriends. Did he ever f*ck me? NO. Anyway, our sex life really took off…. we both loved anal, MFMs, pegging….. and like @GregS said, my now wife said that she’d bet a real cock would feel so much better to suck and to be f*cked. we started looking for a like-minded bi guy, but there were too many creeps out there. Too many old out of shape guys. so we basically gave up on that venture. Yeah, our sex life was still hot, but now these years later, she has shut down Sexually. Does she know that I would do almost anything with the right kind gentleman? Probably…. But we do not discuss anything related to sex anymore.

 

I don’t think my wife would have accepted it, but my bi curious side only came out after she passed. We did have a great kinky sex life, but to be honest that would probably be to much for her

 

My knew of my bisexuality before we got married. But I also td her I would be faithful, and I have done so, happily.

But I also told her that if she passes away before I do, no telling which way I will go.

 

Same, if my wife passed away suddenly I would have to try it just to see what I was missing.

 

When I started dating my wife I was in a very intense relationship with a gay friend of mine. She was suspicious about our "friendship" from the moment she met him. She did ask me at one point if I had ever "experimented" with him. There was a noticeable twinkle in her eyes when she asked the question. I denied it, and she didn't ask again. But I didn't really try all that hard to be discreet about things with him. I did admit to being bisexual several years into our marriage. The relationship with my friend continued until a year into my marriage when he died suddenly. I was devastated, and my wife could see that.

Over the years, she has at other times been seemingly aroused about my sexuality and has made jokes about it. She was fucking me with a strapon for a while and would ask if I liked the feeling of "tits on my back" as opposed to....

Other times, definitely not. She accepts it begrudgingly, but wouldn't be open to me having a FWB relationship on the side at this point.

I am also somewhat aroused by her knowing that I am bi.

 

my wife (or ex-wife) was not accepting of the idea at all. No matter how many times I tried to bring it up or try to explain it to her. And therefore I never experimented or tried anything until after we finally broke up.

I am envious of all of you that have managed to incorporate it into your married life! That is the dream!

 

For us we were high school sweethearts, and we hit married very early , she never dated or been with man….once we hit married close to mid twenties …we incorporated kinky things in our bedroom and she was interested in porn ….I began to notice she was watching more porn on her free time…she even brought the idea of gay porn in our bed room ….slowly , the first guy I had mm hook up …thanks to her getting me to watch gay porn so many times and getting me to wear thongs …..I got him to seduce my wife …this went on for almost a year, I wanted her to enjoy …,finally she opened up …,we struggled and communicated properly and decided to have open marriage…..I also confessed that I was leading a bi life ….she accepted and wanted me continue …..we went from steady straight relationship to cuck, hotwife, poly to everything…
What really worker is the open communication and trust …we are in our early 30 with young kids , glad we started early.
Commitment to support one another without any jealousy is key…

 

very cool - you found a keeper!!

 

Goes both ways…she is having wild time as well, not only she is seeing other guys. But leading few intimate long term relationships as well

 

My first wife was all into it. We were both Bi and wanted and open relationship. We had some amazing times but we were young and got married way to early.
Current wife knows I dated men/CD/Trans in the past and has seen photos and videos of me with them. She said it does nothing for her and is not into it at all.

 

What did your counselor say about that?

 

Thanks for answering my question - I didn't think he'd have anything to say about her position... and I figured he'd "side" with her. I'm guessing that he had nothing to say about her destroying your trust? And then, friends, women want to know why we'd go have sex with a man...