Watching yourself having sex and seeing what partner sees

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  1. topper

    topper Member

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    Have you ever seen yourself having sex as your partner sees you? Did it open your eyes to do anything different to enlighten yourselves and each other. Example: my wife never knew how her pussy lips fluttered as my cock went in and out of her pussy. Watching myself sucking my friends cock and seeing my ass getting fucked with dildos and the real thing was a reality trip.
    Did you like what you had seen?
     
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  2. Bazz888

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    Inadvertently, I got in to that.
    I was asked by an acquaintance - a 28yr old whom I had just met earlier at a friend's BBQ - if I would photograph her. I agreed and asked about the type of photos she wanted.

    We met at her place a few days later and chatted for about two hours about what she wanted. She specifically wanted to see what she looked like, just as if she was looking at someone else.

    So, again, per her request, I took about 12 shots of her in different poses.

    That developed into several meets with me photographing and videoing her and me around her house and garden. Very exhilarating to see myself on video, once I got over the initial 'aw whaaat?!'. Lol

    She got such a buzz from it that she mentioned to some of her friends which led to me repeating with 7 or 8 others.

    Oh, yes!! :)
    I still get off looking at them 10yrs on.
     
  3. JS420

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    I have photos and videos of me masturbating and cumming, but nothing else. I have a few Polaroids of old girlfriends posing nude, but nothing great. Once it got around to the digital age my wife at the time wasn't into anything like that. So I wish I had photos and videos of me fucking someone, me eating someone's pussy, someone sucking my cock and me sucking someone's cock. Maybe if I lucky it will happen before I go to the big masturbatorium in the sky!!!!
     
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  4. KDaddy23

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    I can remember the first time I watched a guy fuck me. At first, I was on my stomach, and he's fucking me and says, "My dick looks good going in and out of you - you should see it!" I tried to avoid being fucked in the missionary position because it always made my hips hurt but I told him to pull out and let me turn over and then pulled my legs back as far as I could stand it and watched him slide it back in me and start to fuck me. It was surreal. I'm watching him going in and out of me, he's watching what I'm watching and the next thing I know, I feel him squirting his stuff in me and I have a very warm feeling flowing through me.

    My hip joints hurt for a couple of days, but I felt it was worth it to be able to see something I'd never seen.
     
  5. LowHangers

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    I've been videotaped having oral sex with my guy several times. His wife was the one wanting to do so. The lighting was never quality enough, but it was exciting to see me sucking his cock. Like "KDaddy" I too was wanting to see with my own eyes his cock fucking my ass. Being fucked doggie style is my preference but I laid on my back, pulled my legs up to watch his cock fucking me, it was exciting to see for the first time. I've also watched myself sucking cock in large mirrors that guys had in their bedrooms which was exciting as well.
     
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  6. topper

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    I have seen myself in pics, when my wife was into her photography/video thing. Not flattering and looked more like porn from the 60s. It is a job. to make it look attractive to others. Lighting, camera angles and general presentation of the context. Even when she watches live she has commented on what she can or cant see if something is in the way. Her Basic rule was be able to See,not guess. We both agree that watching a head bobbing up and down is boring, but watching a cock slipping though lips and down a throat is more exciting. If there was going to be anal, she definately wanted to see the head of the cock pushing through an asshole and any kind of cumshots available. Thats just her. Im cool with it..
     
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  7. Windman

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    I had a friend video us as he fucked me missionary. It was a turn on to see myself from his perspective, his cock gliding in an out of me, and my moans, I didn’t even realize at the time I was as vocal as I was. All the while my hard cock was flopping to his rhythm.
     
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    My one FB has a big mirror by his bed. On the bed, I can look over and see him rimming me while I suck his cock. Then, when he bends me over the side of the bed, I can look forward at the mirror, and watch as he pounds my ass. It makes for fantastic visual.
     
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  9. SantaCruzRob

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    Really strange seeing my 34 year old self naked with my wife at 28. Damn.:p
     
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