Have you ever met a woman who felt this way? A woman from the bar said she felt that way, but anal was ok?
I knew a guy who was dating a girl who would eagerly blow him and let him fuck her ass but not her pussy. Said she wanted to remain a virgin.
Most of the girls in High School (1979-81) that I had sex with loved to suck dick and have their pussies eaten but only permitted anal sex in order to save their vaginas. I was OK with that.
I have been fortunate to be able to have anal with many partners. My fb has been with countless men and women but only two other men have ever been in her rear. Her ex husband and a former boyfriend. When she asked me a few months ago I was honored. She enjoyed it tremendously and what was a first for her is I enter her missionary and insert a vibrator into her pussy creating a dp experience. She then places a clitoral vibrator over her clit. Her multiple orgasms are explosive.
I’m biased because I get so much pleasure from anal play, especially with larger guys, but I’m personally much more likely to let men put it on my ass than my vagina. Same with my mouth. I enjoy giving head so it’s not hard to get me to suck. Vaginal intercourse DOES feel much more intimate and I’m slightly more picky about who I let use it. I’d say my butt falls between oral and vaginal. I’ll give head to almost anyone who’s clean and groomed and if you just really NEED to fuck, I always offer my ass first.
KUDOS to you, more women need to adopt your outlook on having sex. Back in the 1980's most of the women I was having sex with held this very same outlook, oral and anal were fair play but until we evolved into something serious that vagina was off limits except for eating that pussy out to provide some wild orgasms.
I have a friend who loves anal because there's no worry about her getting pregnant. Once it's in there, she knows he's going to finish in there and that's what she love. In order....cock in mouth...cock in pussy...cock in asshole. Happy ending!
I don't think I've ever met an adult woman who was saving her pussy but you could fuck her ass. In my youth, there were a lot of girls who wanted to be fucked but was afraid of (a) getting pregnant and (b) their parents finding out that they'd had sex so instead of their pussy, they wanted to be fucked in the ass and... oh, okay - I'm used to that because I fuck guys in their ass!
I think I might’ve explained this situation before on this forum but I knew an Indian girl in high school who was a virgin vaginally and was saving it for marriage but let a bunch of guys have her mouth and ass. She even believed kissing and having her pussy eaten was too intimate and off limits. I finally got my chance with her while we both were in college and ended up fucking and cumming in her ass 3 times in one night. I heard stories but I didn’t realize how much of a freak she was until after we had sex and talked. We were both only 19 but she had already let over 30 guys fuck and cum in her ass. She was also the first person I ever heard talk about how good cum was health-wise, way before I heard about any studies, and always either wanted to swallow it or have it shot up her ass. She was a little weird in a lot of different ways but she had a nice body and was definitely a fun fuck.
I had a girlfriend in high school whose mother insisted she stay virgin till marriage. But told her it was ok to perform oral and anal. She also told her to use protection such as condoms. Our relationship was very short but I do remember the two times and being my first performing anal. Her protection? She carried plastic bags with her. Yep....they worked.
I had that exact same experience with a girl I dated when I was in grad school years ago. I thought it was hysterical. She was saving herself for the "classy rich guy" she was destined to marry. I loved fucking her in the ass and laughing to myself about how she was "preserving her virginity." If I got anywhere near her ****, she would push my cock back to her asshole. She did realize that if she didn't put out in some fashion, I wasn't going to stay with her long. I found her on social media some time ago. Looks like she never married. I wonder if she maintained her "virginity."