Yeah, I guess that's kind of the problem. She's definitely not the most enthusiastic sex partner I've ever had. She rarely initiates sex herself, and while she seems to enjoy it, I'm left with the feeling that sex is mostly for me. My previous girlfriend was very tight - just inserting it into her would make her body spasm. Believe me - I've thought about this a lot. Typically when we have sex, either she'll use her vibrator while I suck on her tits until she cums, or I'll finger her clit until she cums before I penetrate her. I dunno - would getting her off with a sleeve really be much different than a vibrator? It would, in a way I guess - I'd know that if I had a much larger cock then she'd enjoy it more.
:-( Be honest and communicate with her about this. You maybe surprised as to the changes which may present it as a new adventure and share new approaches to mutually satisfying each other! Wish for change for you both!!;-)
My fwb was dating a guy with a cock about 9 inches when we started our encounters. She broke up with him after a few months of our fucking. I know her for years and her past lovers many of whom were larger than me. Same with my fb. I never cared as long as I got the pussy and satisfied them as best I could which I guess was successful because I am still with them and they are not. The thought of those big units inside them was always a turn on for me. My wife was the blow job queen in college and sucked many of my friends so it was the same as well which was a turn on then knowing she had their cocks and cum so I guess for me it was always a turn on but I respect for some it can be stressful
Wife’s ex was huge. She said it hurt and he didn’t know how to use it. I’m average and she worships it. I can get a bj or have sx anytime I ask. I’m blessed
My gfs ex wasn’t huge but ejaculates an enormous volume of cum, to the point it’s almost painful for him and his whole body shakes as he squirts repeatedly. She said he’d seen doctors about it. She said that was one reason she’d never sucked him til he came. In her pussy was fine but she says it flooded everywhere.
OMG I would pay good money for a video of him doing that. Massive ejaculations are a huge turn-on for me. And the porn sites are filled with faked garbage.
I know for certain my last two exes had previous boyfriends who were very well endowed. They also confessed that I am smaller than any of their previous lovers. Some were definitely above average but many were more on the average size. However I have a very small penis ( especially when soft) I am decidedly boysize as opposed to mansize. I am fairly certain that most if not all my exes ( short term, one offs, semi-longer term ) also downsized when they crossed paths with my tiny todger. Out of this I developed my sph fetish so my historical embarrassments and sporadic humiliations morphed into a source of arousal both post fetish and pre fetish ( recalling my history which was once decidedly not ego-boosting) I entered into a more open cuck style sex life with the afforementioned exes and I actually saw the size of a couple of their former lovers. I also was a direct voyeur in some of their hookups and very much enjoyed watching much better endowed guys fucking them. I have not been in a regular relationsip for over a year now but have had a few one night stands. My main source of sexual relief has been through forums like this one or porn videos. However I have been extremely lucky to have stumbled into a long distance e mail sex banter with a woman I previously only knew as a member of my social it has morphed into a bit of a drive by sex play after she came over to Europe from North America for a month long vacation. She is coming over here again in a couple of weeks to do some more travelling around Europe and this time there may be a cuck style threesome happening. She does not have a regular partner but there is another guy over here who is potentially willing to play with us. (I know he has a huge cock because I have seen it when he fucked one of my exes)
Most of the guys my wife and I had threesomes with were bigger than me. It did lead to me feeling like I’m small, which at six and half inches I’m not, but you see enough big ones and your perspective changes. Being that I am bi, it all worked out.
My late wife told me a few months after we started dating that she was so pleased when she first saw my dick. She told me her ex had a dick as big as her forearm and often fucked her several times a day, which might have helped explain her cavernous pussy. Fortunately, over time her pussy got used to my size. We teased and made jokes about his dick often. Not time she was lying between my legs sucking my dick with one hand cupping my balls and the other around my shaft. She look up and says "I could never suck Richard like this." Like an idiot I ask why not? She says " Because I'd need both hands to hold his dick!" It was so funny. Sidebar: We raised her son she had with Richard. We lived in a one bathroom house and her son and I often saw each other naked. His dick was the biggest I had ever seen. His morning wood was so much bigger than mine...longer and thicker.
I dated a redhead for about two years. Sex with her was like trying to put a champagne cork back into the bottle. She confessed that I was the biggest the moment her mouth wouldn’t open up wide enough to take the fat glans into her mouth. She’s married now but she asks me to write fantasy stories about her and I in adventures where I fuck her constantly with my fat dick. Even anal sex scenes (which she wouldn’t let me do to her when we were together). I even send pics of my fatty to her so she remembers how good it felt to ride my fat dick..
Yes, I had a very similar experience when I started dating my wife. She had just come out of a self described "slut phase" when we started dating. She wasn't embarrassed at all about it and frankly "owned" that period of her life. She told me in VERY explicit detail about all of the encounters she had during that period, including the size of the cocks the men had that fucked her. She had a few that were above average. She initiated the recollection of all those encounters just a couple of months after we started dating. I didn't need to ask her "What was that biggest cock you ever had." She volunteered the information. For her the most memorable encounter/fling during that period was when her and a friend were picked up in a bar one night by two men. She and the friend were regulars in the city bars, and they knew what they were looking for in those quests. So, they chatted, the men bought them some drinks, then they agreed to go back to the apartment in the city that one of them had. My wife and her friend knew why they were going there. They were going there to get fucked by these men. She's telling me the story slowly, peeling back the onion layer by layer. We're on a foliage drive at the time, and I'm driving. They get to the apartment. It's time to choose partners for the next phase of the evening. Oh, one of the men was white, the other black and a tennis player of some renown. So, he was fit and muscular. And it was his apartment. So, the black man chose her, and they went to the bedroom. Her friend got the white man and the living room couch. My wife taunted her friend for years about that. I loved that she was so openly proud of that. He takes off his shirt. He's muscular and fit. Then he drops his pants, and my wife was absolutely stunned. She claims his cock was 12" long and VERY THICK. So, he figured out that she had never seen anything like that before. She didn't say anything indicating hesitation on her part. So, after some foreplay, she spread her legs, and he started to enter her. She described him as a gentleman, but when he was about to enter, he made it silently clear that he was going to make her take it ALL the way inside her. She is also a somewhat petite woman So, he fucks her bareback, and climaxes inside her. She was on the pill at the time. So, now I have a raging hardon, and I'm trying to concentrate and keep the car on the road. He recovers, then he fucks her again. At some point she and her friend leave. My wife says she was sore for a few days, and had discomfort walking. So, he called her, and she went back for more. She flat out told me, "I just wanted him to fuck me again." She went straight to his apartment alone, and he fucked her twice again. She was wanton, slutty, whatever you want to call it, but totally proud of herself. This was in the early 1980's, so interracial sex was still a little taboo, which also excited her. After that, she broke it off for a few reasons. She did say that if she became accustomed to that cock, it might be an adjustment to return to an average size if the relationship ended at some point. He made it known that he definitely wanted a relationship with her. I loved hearing the story and enjoyed her attitude about it. I literally would go back to my apartment some nights and masturbate thinking and visualizing about her in those encounters. She became aware of that. At her insistence, we watched a LOT of interracial porno then. As she out it, "I want to see black men fucking white women." I hadn't heard the expression "blacked" yet, but she definitely was. " Instead of a threesome as others here have had, I wanted to find a very well hung black man to fuck her, perhaps regularly while I watched. She was definitely into interracial sex, and I wanted her to be able to have it again in an NSA situation. So, before I knew what a cuckold was, I wanted to be one. She considered that offer, but declined. She would bring up her encounters with the black man occasionally for several years. When we were dating, I was also very involved with a gay/bi friend of mine. He had a huge curved cock, and I wanted to have a threesome with him and my future wife. I know that she would have loved getting fucked by him. But, she wasn't into group sex, and didn't yet know the extent of my relationship with him. I called her out for being a size queen at one point, but she denied it in spite of her enthusiastic recollection of the well hung men that fucked her. But she married me, and I have average endowment at best. She still will make the occasional comment when she sees a man that is noticeably well endowed.