Would it matter ?.....

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  1. Downonthemuffin

    Downonthemuffin Members

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    I've noticed on here that a lot of men prefer that their wives/girlfriends shave their pubic hair......but also that a lot of men like their wives/girlfriends to have their natural bush.
    So......imagine yourself as a single guy once again and you meet the woman of your dreams....beautiful, smart, funny, loving, caring and dtf anytime...
    You go out a few times and you both are feeling genuine love for each other, so in a mutual decision, you decide to have sex.
    When she takes her clothes off, you're surprised to see that she has ALL of her natural body hair, not just her pussy but her armpits, legs, butt, tummy, etc....
    She's very clean, takes care of herself, but has made the decision to not shave and stay all natural.
    Does this affect how you feel about her ?
    Do you still find her desirable and sexy ?
    Does it turn you on or is it a complete turn off ?
    As for myself, I would like to think that as my dream girl, it wouldn't matter ....but it would sure as hell be something I wasn't expecting...
     
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  2. Indybanker1946

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    Does this affect how you feel about her ? Yes, love her individuality and lack of social conformity.
    Do you still find her desirable and sexy ? Absolutely!
    Does it turn you on or is it a complete turn off ? OMG, I'm hard now thinking about it!

    In the 60s and 70s I was lucky enough to be intimate with a few girls that defied social convention and I loved it!
     
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  3. Bazz888

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    I think you meant lust rather than love.


    Not at all though I think it would have me deciding not to do certain things.

    I've never met such a woman. Of the many I've met and seen nude, (when I photograph them or having sex), those with full bush have always been smooth all over except sometimes their underarms.

    I would like to think I'm not so shallow as to allow an unpleasant cover to put me off a book but I would avoid doing certain things with her such that my tongue wouldn't touch her hairs.

    Neither of those opinions. It would probably prevent me from doing certain things with her which would, at least, have her move to the friend zone. I really wouldn't want a relationship of real depth where some aspects of fun weren't possible for each/either of us.

    I say each/either because I have been told by several women that they won't do some stuff unless I'm smooth. That's ok
     
  4. Downonthemuffin

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    No, I meant love.....as I said, she's your dream girl, some would say a soulmate, the type you want to spend the rest of you life with.....and she feels the same way about you.
    I used an extreme example of a woman with ALL of her natural body hair ( and I haven't encountered one either, but I have no doubt they exist ) to find out how other guys would react to find out the love of their life is not into shaving any part of her body.
    I could flip this around and ask the women how they would react upon finding out their dream guy shaves ALL his body hair....
    I'm just curious to see how everyone feels....
     
  5. KDaddy23

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    I've been with women who didn't shave; my first wife never shaved; neither did my poly wives. I... barely remember the first grown woman I had sex with who shaved everything from the neck down and she was quite weird that she didn't want me to see or touch her until she shaved and she carried on as if I preferred her shaved bald... and I'd told her that I didn't care either way. So, she kept shaving and, sadly, she suffered from ingrown hairs and kept shaving despite how bad some of them got.

    My current wife shaves what little peach fuzz she has on her mound and she has zero hair under her arms, on her arms, or her legs. She shaves her mound, gets ingrown hairs that either I gotta do something about or she's using stuff like boil-eze to deal with the worst of them. I've been to the point where I'm not going to ask her why she keeps shaving when she has this problem - and won't listen to anything I have to say about shaving, which cracks me the fuck up and... like I told that other woman, I don't care either way and it's her body and pussy mound.
     
  6. Lovnflman

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    Does this affect how you feel about her ? Yes
    Do you still find her desirable and sexy ? No
    Does it turn you on or is it a complete turn off ? A major turn off
    As for myself, I would like to think that as my dream girl, it wouldn't matter ....but it would sure as hell be something I wasn't expecting. I don’t think that would be something I could get past. I know what I like, and hair anywhere put on her head or a trimmed bush would be a huge turn off. Just a personal preference.

    For example…. Born and raised in the US, and years ago, I went on a 3 week business trip to Milan. on a day off I did some sightseeing… the Duomo it was amazing. Eventually ordered the subway to head back to my hotel room. at an intermediate stop, this absolutely beautiful woman boarded in a blue sleeveless knee length dress. Nice shoulder length black hair and olive skin. Subway was getting crowded…SRO…. and she ended up standing next to me. How lucky could I get? Yeah my mind immediately went into the gutter, thinking how much fun it would be to improve international relations with her. But then the game changer! When she reached up to grab hold of the overhead handrail, I was greeted with armpit hair that was on par with my own. Her BO was almost overwhelming. Then I glanced down at her legs, and it was obvious she was not a shaver. There went to my fantasy. I knew nothing about her. She may have been a very nice woman. Even so I do not think I could get past all of the hair. JMHO.
     
  7. Bazz888

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    Ok, the hypothesis doesn't relate to, me.
    Status of love or soul mate wouldn't apply until after we had known each other for some considerable time by which time we would already have been nude together and had sex.
     
  8. jimandjan

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    I left it us to her, but during her sexually active stage she was mainly smooth.
     
  9. nympho man

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    It is a complete turn on for me!! I should have been born in the 1700 & 1800's!
     
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