so today i was thinking about times when guys have approached me in public for whatever reason and thinking that they might have been missed opportunities where i could have possibly hooked up with them. there were two times in particular that i'm thinking about where i was in a store and a guy started asking me questions about a certain item or what they sell. i'm sure it would be overthinking it if looking back i thought they were trying to come onto me but...you never know. so has anyone else had situations like this? that you consider missed opportunities?
yes there were many times in the past I’ve had that opportunities..now I don’t let them be missed as if I know he is into me , I let myself given in…long as he fits my needs in man . Certain times I feel bad , I didn’t pick up those chances …I’ve learned my lesson
Oh, yes. Way back in my younger college days and shortly after, I was waiting tables. A male couple ended up sitting at one of my tables. There was nothing out of the ordinary about them, and I went about serving them. It was a lunchtime meal I recall. After they left, and I started to clear the table, one of them left a business card under his plate. Interesting, I was perhaps a little intrigued, but since I was "straight" I didn't pursue it. Of course years later when I wished I figured out I was bi, and regretted not getting into men at a much younger age I regretted not taking the bait. Another time back then as well, I was with my track teammates for a night of wild drinking and partying. We spent the night at his parents waterfront home. I was absolutely hammered, and slept on the floor, literally. I woke up in the morning hungover, rolled over and looked up to see a black man I didn't know standing over me. He was in the process of pulling up his pants, but his cock was out. It was pretty big and thick. He shook it over me some, and stared down at me and asked: "Hungry?" It was out of the question, I was "straight" and my teammates were really homophobic, and it was the mid 1970's. Later in life I developed a strong attraction to black men, and in particular, sucking their cocks. He could have been my first.
More than I care to remember. Always one of those moments where I'd kick my own ass because I could've had sex with the guy but... sometimes, shit doesn't happen.
