Hi, my name is Ronnie, I just turned 18 in September! I've had this longterm interest in BDSM, in the dynamics, relationships, the effects it has on people psychologically-- since I was probably wayyy too young lol. That Spader movies really got to me. That idea of submitting has been present in my life for so long. I just have no idea where to even start. My issue is I'm anxious. I still live at home. I struggle to meet real people who could teach me things about this and share real experiences in this topic. What is it like? How do you start? What could be risky? What, in particular, comes from it? I'm sorry if my etiquette is poor, I've never used a forum like this before Thank you, in advance!
Welcome Ronnie! I think you found a great place to give you guidance and tips! Look forward to having you on HF! ;-)
I was like you once! I used this forum to learn…mainly guys here, but it’s guys that I wanted to please, so has been the perfect place for me!
Don't you worry or feel intimidated. Everyone have their own step here. This site is also really international. In my case I'm from Argentina. So don't surprise to find mistakes in our writting. For many of us, English is not our native language.
Ronnie, Welcome!!! I tell you, dive right into the forums. There is one for BDSM. There is an introduction forum. Introduce yourself and the wheels will start moving. There are all types of people hear. This is the most open and honest place to be. Welcome, Mark
Thank you so much! Wow, this is really such a large platform, I had no idea :0. I really can't wait to get started Thank you for the warm welcome!
Woah, Argentina? That's so cool :3 I personally am from Australia. Everybody on here so far has been so kind and welcoming so far, I feel very good about my decision to start learning thank to the encouragement !
And I am from Norway…we span the globe. English is generally ok for me as most of us are multilingual and I went to Uni in the U.S. for four years.
