First timers sucking another man's cock.

Not much…..and no!

 

Well...

 

Yeah, I would definitely have to know the person

 

I'm curious: How long would it take for you - or anyone else who cares to answer - to get to know the person?

 

For me, just the 30-40 minutes I'm sucking on his cock...

 

If my legs are in the air and his lips are wrapped around my cock, that’s all the introduction we will need.

It’s been more than a year since my last in real life MM encounter, and I regret not asking that sweet man to fuck my ass.

 

I live in a relatively small town, and a lot of close family nearby. Most of my male “friends” are married and not really close. If I suddenly “discovered“ a new friend, I am sure that my wife’s radar would light up, and any potential would be immediately shot down. Maybe meet someone at the golf course. Maybe some middle-age guy would notice that my game sucks. How do you bring up the topic that I do (did)?

 

I don’t know the answer as I’m asking it myself. But I’d love another bad golfer like me to come up to me and say hey want to join me for a few holes? And then gauge by radar how receptive he would be to gripping more than a wood.

I’m in the sauna at my gym wt least three times a week and I drape my nude waist with a towel but have had a hardon develop and only once did it seem like the other guy there might be interested. I manspread a modest amount and the towel slipped enough for my balls and head to show. He noticed for sure and I thought I was setting the hook when the door entered and another guy came in and my lustful friend exited like he was embarrassed.

 

Forgive me for asking but are you not allowed to meet and make new male friends? But, then again, I've known wives who have given their hubby da bizness for having male friends in the first place; I've known them to go out of their way to alienate their husband's friends so that, essentially, he won't have any friends and won't be able to make new friendships because she's going to destroy them. And I'll be damned if I know why and more so when they have friends and make new friends.

So, what would set her radar off and why?

 

That sounds about right and if it takes that long with some guys...

 

For me, should the situation present itself, I would like a couple/few non-sexual interactions. Just us guys being guys. Manly stuff! I don’t think there is any way I would go down on a guy after just 30 to 40 minutes. Hell, If the vibe is there, there is time to get comfortable, And when it happens, no rush! Back in the day, both of us just wanted to get off…. The sooner the better. It usually didn’t take long. Nowadays, I think I would be less concerned about my orgasm, and more concerned with just having a nice hard “ member” in my mouth and just enjoying it. The thrill of a thrusting, swelling, shooting, and swallowing. Never tried a 69 with him…. too busy concentrating on other aspects. The only person I enjoyed 69 with is my wife. Nothing like her sitting on my face, and I am enjoying it. Difficult to concentrate on her mouth on me.

 

I’ll get back to you.

 

Nothing wrong with taking your time and all that good stuff... but a lot of first times don't happen like this. Don't ever discount how you can find a Mr. Right in 30-40 minutes... and getting/giving some head to get the ball rolling!

 

I'm just on here a new guy and this is the first post I've read. Love it I think I'm on the right site after all. I've ducked a few socks and at the moment I'm gagging to suck. I have a friend, well not any more. He's 19 and gay, I've known him for a while, I did tell him at one point I was bi sexualising, which seemed to go down well. I do fancy him and would love to have sucked his cock.

I sent him a text saying that I think you have a nice body and your my type,nothing offensive it was like a compliment. Well he didn't think that at all. He went off on one telling me not to contact him again. I thought that's a big horse. I'm thinking we'll you are gay so I thought you'd actually take that as a compliment but sadly no. I was a bit disappointed really but never mind.lol

 

I used A4A to good success for my last hookup. After many flakeouts and me teasing guys but not going for it, one very sweet Thai American gay man recognized me in the Costco (!!!) he was with his sister and I heard them speaking. He said my name as a question, I blurted out “yes!” and when he touched my arm it was electric. I can’t describe to feeling but it was a connection.

We had several weeks together meeting up for walks in parks and meeting for coffee and always ending up at my place where he very lovingly bottomed for me, my first time with a guy, as well as many loving blowjobs. Damn I had a BF for those weeks, then had to move back east.

 

I can't tell you how many times afterwards where we exchanged contact info so we could enjoy each other's company again. There, the friendship was bonded through a good blow job. It happens!

 

Can we meet? I'm married, 34.