I love licking, swirling, and sucking nipples!! My wife doesn't get as turned on as I do when I am getting mine licked or played with. It drives me to some very intense orgasms. Very often when my wife is riding me, she will rub my nipples and it is an unbelievable feeling for me.
I can play with suck lick kiss my wife’s nipples and give her an orgasm. No pussy play. It’s hot and like the OP posted she cannot be touched for a while from over stimulation. She has described it exactly. Like being tickled and they won’t stop feels like throwing punches.