What Makes Marriages End?

Well for my mothers marriage it was the men coming in and out of her bedroom.iv never been married because i find the concept scary because of the trusting part.iv been proposed to several times but it wasnt right.I think marriages dont have one thing that kills them i think its a combo of little things and when somthing like cheating comes up well it breaks the last straw sending all of the past even further.You can be with someone 3 years through love,loss,fear,joy and wealth.family vactoins,vactoins alone then one day its over your strangers again wandering our world without eachother.

 

If one spouse has to tell the other, "It's not a competition..." it's not going to work. Call 1-800-NOFAULT to make that appointment for a divorce. Being browbeaten as a kinky kind of thing is one thing; to be treated like you have little or no value in the marriage? Nothing you do is good enough or things you can do like you have been doing them for years are all being done wrong or not the way they want it done. 1-800-NOFAULT. If she ever says to you, "You're not my father!" dial that number and you might as well dial it if she ever asks you, "Is that all you think about?" If he comes home from work and bitches you out because his dinner isn't on the table or you're two minutes late putting in on the table?

1-800-NOFAULT and they have operators on duty 24/7/365 with our staff of lawyers ready to assist you. If either spouse is behaving like it's the 1930s, 40s, or 50s, well, you know the number because if you don't call it, it's very damned likely you're going to regret it.

I need more coffee...

 

Many reasons

marrying too young and not knowing what you are getting into

wrong partner, not compatible

wrong reasons

different values
Money, sex, children, work

Lack of support from one

infidelity

unreasonable expectations

death

falling out of love, stale relationship

neglect

abuse, control

drama

not prioritizing each other
However also not having me time without your other half

unresolved issues like unfounded jealousy, lack of trust

lack of communication

 

prioritizing your wants over the needs of the person you profess to love..

 

My one "ex" had been programmed by her parents from birth that she was mentally gifted, etc. So, instead of putting in the effort to
get through college, she expected to succeed by osmosis instead of doing the work required. Result: consistent dropping out and
intending to start over.

 

One of the "themes" in the 1970s was, "If you don't take care of your man/woman, someone else can and will!" and taking care of your man/woman meant emotionally as well as physically but what it kinda/sorta really referred to was that if you don't fuck your man/woman, someone else will... and it'll be your fault if they do. If you think the marriage is all about you? Your marriage is fucked and not in a good way.

 

When one is done having sex, no fault to the other SO, it causes a deep loss.
Unless the SO accepts and decides masturbation is the new sex for the rest of their sex days

 

Cheating cause marriage end