What to do when partner isnt into mutual masturbation?

I mean there are so many people out there and unless married. I would almost advise going with someone else that matches your drive and desires. I have been miss matched for years and it’s constricting. I mean unless he is an absolute wizard in every other aspect of sex… why be with someone who won’t even listen to a fantasy or desire.

 

My wife and I used to masturbate each other to orgasm, haven't done that in some time.
She's always loved it when I would jack off with her watching and shoot my warm cum on her clit or her asshole, then use it as lube to make herself cum.....

 

So sorry to read this. My wife and I masturbate a lot together to get things started. Very enjoyable to watch and show off for each other. We have always been very open to communicating about our wants and desires, plus accepting our differences.
On a serious note, if you have other issues with him in the bedroom, please see a sex therapist together. There may be underlying reasons that scare him for not doing this type of sex. However, sometimes there are things that just don't do it for the other. Even if we don't like it, boundaries in a loving relationship are important. Hopefully there are many other forms of sexaul intimacy that you two share. Good luck.

 

wow, trying to wrap my brain around this thread; I often find a a mutual masturbation partner whos hand feels better than mine

 

hi, have you talked to your partner out of bed on this subject? mutual for gal/guy partners is fun and ya dont have to worry about getting pregnant; is he shy about it? maybe he does not know how to masturbate a woman? perhaps a gentle guiding hand to put his where is feels good for you will build his confidence; just some isolated thoughts; hope this helps