When, if ever, does a bisexual man become gay?

Spot on 100%

 

I think that it is pretty much a given that many bi men (especially if they are married) feeling that they are " out the cross hairs", so to speak, as that, being they are also sexually aroused by women, they can keep their M2M side "under wraps", at least in theory.

I often think of bi men who consider themselves most fortunate that, even though they DO enjoy sex with other men, they STILL are not assocoated with the dreaded "gay" label, at least to outsiders

Of course, from our many discussions here, we know that a bisexual married man also, all too often, has his own challenges and hurdles to deal with.....seldom is there ant "clear sailing".

Also, you have to wonder if, what goes through the mind of a bi man, who, gradually, finds himself more and more interested in having sex with other men , and less and less with women.

Is this man secretly afraid....even terrified.....of becoming TOTALLY gay?

Does he simply ACCEPT the TRUTH about himself, and live HIS life as HE wishes to?

Sad indeed that our supposedly "enlightened" socoety is still so narrow-minded and bigoted, not to mention rabidly hypocritical...........

 

Perhaps a man, who has long considered himself bisexual (and has fully identified with such term) would not fear the prospect of becoming totally gay, if it were not for the narrow-minded, bigoted, stereotypical views of an "enlightened" society, that, sadly, all too often, is anything but.....

 

I will always enjoy being with a woman. Nothing against those wanting to be worth a man, it's just not my speed. Relationship wise, it's a no. Occasionally getting together for some pleasurable fun, and chilling afterwards, that's ideal.