Married men cheating with men

Truthfully its the only sex I like now

 

I understand what you are saying. Luckily my wife has been aware of and has accepted my enjoyment of having sex with my regular man of almost 13 years now. My wife no longer desires to have sex because of her arthritic knees but allows me to have sex with my man and his wife when she occasionally joins in and has no desires to see it taking place, or knowing it's taking place any longer. OK, no problem there and I appreciate that she accepts that I will do so on occasion, but I prefer to be with him more than with her simply because his cock provides me with far more sexual satisfaction. If she is wanting to join us, we NEVER turn her away because I do still enjoy eating her pussy (69 with her on top) while she sucks my cock, and her husband is fucking her pussy and my mouth before plunging into her ass while I eat her pussy.

 

The ease of it is completely addictive. No foreplay, no warming up, no don't do this don't do that. Never have to ask to get a blowjob, never have to ask if I can cum in his mouth. Get hard, get blown, cum in mouth. It's just that easy.

 

No ring, no promises.

 

It's notgay cheating if your wife knows and approves. If I were into cheating, it wouldn't be with a man, but since it all winds up with pretty much the same end result, it works.

 

I've played with guys numerous times since I've been married.

I'm not a great husband, but guys have something that my wife doesn't.

I can compartmentalize things. I've never cheated with a woman. I don't cheat just to cheat. I travel for work and could hook-up with women whenever, but it's not about cheating.

 

I don’t know….. maybe my situation was/is a convoluted mess. Way back in HS/early college,…. before girls/young women…. I became a FREQUENT SB with my neighbor buddy. Neither one of us had really thought about sex with each other, but one night it just happened with him. we both liked it! Then we found females, and it stopped between me and him.

FF several years, I found myself married. Things were great at first (aren’t most marriages?). I felt I was a good husband, one that approved of her having a side guy. But then her mental health started to tank, and so did our sex life. In my line of work it is notorious for hook ups on Work trips. Great fun at the time, but I felt guilty about it. I don’t think she ever found out, and I never told her about my SB. Divorced thank gawd!

I did tell my present wife about my time with my neighbor. At first,, she was shocked! Thought she might break it off before we even got married. Thankfully, she didn’t. LSS she eventually got off on the idea. we had a few MFMs, pegging, and it was her that suggested we find a bi guy we could both play with. SWEET! we looked extensively, but never found one that we found mutually agreeable. DAMN!

now I find myself thinking about it more, since between her health issues and age, sex is not existent. Has been for a few years. Why is it so difficult to find a sex starved married man for a few blow and goes?

 

It isn't. Lots of apps and websites to find someone to have whatever sex you want. Just gotta take the leap and do it.

 

Well, you do have to be patient and sort out the cat fishers, trolls and horny curious guys who will waste your time and energy

 

friend of mine does that

 

I would say almost 75% of men that contact me on hookup sites are married to a female

 

Thinking back to my youth, sucking dick is like a potato chip. You can't have just one.

 

100% spot on.

 

Perfectly said.

 

Ive been with married guys and they sure seem to like it.Something about married guys sucking dicks its like everybody is bisexual.I dont like labels myself im just a guy who has sex.

 

when I fantasize about sex, it's either about some guys I'd been with way back in the 1970s, or someone I might meet (or have met) who is a fishing buddy or business owner I audited and exchanged knowing glances with..

That's pretty much what gets me charged-up and hard.. My wife if 49 years knew I'd been with guys before we met.. It was not an issue then, nor has it been since.. I think it's likely she's forgotten about it, as she insists she never saw signs I had a problem with alcohol/drugs in those first years (though I was always drinking and/or smoking dope)..

Three years ago she was only wanting sex maybe monthly while I would've loved it twice weekly (I'd been put on weekly testosterone injections as a bad fall in 2010 triggered a few years of back, knee, wrist surgeries and a few years of opioid dependence.. 180 mg oxycontin + 40 mg Methadone daily can really affect testosterone production)... Imagine my surprise when - after I'd kicked that and my libido came rushing back like the tides in Bay of Fundy and she'd had a mini-stroke she said to me one night "why don't you find a friend to do stuff with?"..

whoa.. but I believe she was referring to me not going hiking, fishing, to movies, dinner, coffee and conversation..

now? well, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in mid-2024.. that stopped T-therapy.. and that essentially shut down even thinking of sex.. and at the same time a podiatrist used a scalpel on a callus and I have non-diabetic venous stasis so here it is two years later and ulceration still hasn't healed.. I'm not supposed to be on my feet so I don't do much.. even following through on artwork or reading a book evaporates without testosterone.. So long as SHE shows interest I'll perform (with my blue buddies helping me out), but I'm going to start radiation in March to kill the cancer before it advances.. It's still early..

Anyway.. she's stayed by me.. She's a retired RN who takes care of my wounds and tries to keep me cheerful.. I'll stay by her.. I'm not the kind of guy to hurt a loyal friend..

If I outlive her and I'm still in my 70s, I might have a MM fling or two.. But not now..