When ever I have any kind of sex and I have satisfied my girl and it is time for me to let go, my nipples play a very important role. She or I MUST touch my nipples. It feels like my nipples and the head of my dick are connected with intense feelings. At times when she is ready for action and I am not, all she does is touch my nipples and walla I get as hard as Chineese arithmetic. Bur her nipples are dead. She even as a teen has never had any feeling in them go figure.
My nipples, nothing, it does nothing for me. My wife’s are much more sensitive and enjoys nipple play, l had her get her nipples pierced “I really like the look” With the piercing she was told that her nipples would get even more sensitive. She said the piercing did help a little to increase her sensitivity but not a great deal, we both really like visual benefits of her getting pierced.
My girl plays with mine sometimes when she’s on the bottom however, It really doesn’t do much for me. I don’t get much feeling. But at the same time I really do like it when she does play with them. ♂️
Mine are quite sensitive and I love them to be sucked and licked. My wife's really likes how far out they protrude, she can actually give them head...lol
Not much for me. My former FWB could cum once in a while from me licking her nips. But she had to have climaxed first in some other way...
There isn't any reason to mess with mine until . . . . hold that thought Let's talk about temperature change as in sudden cooling. I was taught a technique that sends many women to the brink of orgasm when done to a nipple. Take one in the mouth and suck and flick it softly for a few moments. Be fingering her pussy and/or clitoris. You should feel it growing a little. Then with nipple nice and wet pull off and blow. Blow air softly across her wet nipple and watch her body react to the quick cooling of the area around it. It's fascinating to see the nipple harden and crinkle up plus she may cum from the sensation. An ice cube will do much the same. Now back to that thought . . . . mess with mine until I or my partner take a nipple and either she swirls her tongue across or I flick just the tip. It's the very tip that feels great when touched. The sensation sends signals directly to my cock. In order to feel anything my nipple has to be touched softly, very softly. Just the very tip of either one being manipulated is what feels good. Any other play with my nipples most times hurts and is not enjoyable. Don't suck or pinch them. A wet light flick of a finger or tongue swirl over the very tip connects nipple to cock and is quite enjoyable.
My nipples weren't really all that sensitive until I got them pierced. I liked nipple play before I got them pierced, I love it now!
My girlfriend loves me playing with her nipples. I on the other hand hate mine being touched. They feel like they will split if anything other than a tongue is used.
I had a girlfriend once who loved rough nipple play. She liked for me to bite them. As she was getting close to orgasm, she would say, "Bite it harder." As she got closer, she would say, "Bite it harder. Bite it off!" I could never do that to her, but I imagine over the intervening years with a lot of partners, she has found two willing biters, and she no longer has either of her nipples.
Extremely, I can leak and wet my pants from my nipples rubbing against my blouse or shirt. I have big fat nips and don’t use a bra
I also had a past Gf that liked me to bite and tug her nipples when she was close to orgasm (Maybe not as extreme as you describe) but defiantly liked them pulled
I too remember a woman I dated between marriages that loved her nipples tugged on during sex. I mean seriously pulled on to the point I was afraid of hurting her.
I didn't like it, but I knew I was hurting my GF's nipples as afterwards they would be sore and my teeth marks would be on them right where they joined her aureoles. She said it was ok as the pleasure during the heat of the moment far outweighed the pain she later felt. Of course, I couldn't touch them for several days afterwards. She normally didn't wear a bra, but had to after a session to keep her nipples from rubbing against the fabric of her top. She was a trip, that one. She is Nan in my blog: Exhibitionist Women. Nan was a totally uninhibited exhibitionist.
We live far from each other so I keep the thought in my mind. I tried to dm you about the blowjobs post