Bi-Guys Have you ever been asked by wife or girlfriend if you had ever sucked a cock?

I've had girlfriends ask me if I have sucked dick and some of them, I've said yes, I most certainly have and some, well, they were on the "didn't need to know" list. Neither of my wives - ex and current - had to ask me if I had because I told them that I've sucked a lot of cock and it obviously wasn't a problem because they married me!

 

Well, I was asked in a more roundabout way.

When I started dating my wife, I had a VERY close friend that was gay. He and I were in a relationship before I started dating my wife. She met him early on, and asked me if I had ever "experimented" with him. There seemed to be a noticeable twinkle in her eyes when she posed the question, as though it might be arousing to her. I was taken aback, and denied that I had done anything with him. It eventually came out that he and I were lovers for a number of years. She did say that had she known I was bisexual, she may have had some reservations about marrying me.

The reality is that she knew about us, but was in denial about it. I wasn't very diligent in covering my tracks as far as he and I were concerned. I guess on a subconscious level, I did want her to know.

 

My xw never asked, but I this is exactly why I never told her. She was feeding me my cum telling I should have to suck a cock & have a guybcum in my mouth. I craved it, hoped she'd set it up. Buy feared to tell her my past. We split before anything could happen. But I want to suck cock & lose my anal cherry...anyone?

 

Yes I will admit I am Bi if anyone asks. Current wife I told all about my history before we got married. She knows I have dated men, trans, and am a lifelong cocksucker. She watched vids and saw pics of me with men and she says it does nothing for her

 

@thepapasmurph Agreed. My partner and I had a long talk one evening about my interests experiencing sex with a guy or a Trans woman. It was enlightening to her and refreshing to me knowing that she would not look at me different. We even thought about opening up our relationship to a MMF.

 

I have told my ex-girlfriend about sucking cock.we both were bi and it was cool.Sad part she was a compulsive liar and that got old fast.Ive told people online in regular chatrooms not like this and some were repulsed and others fine with it.

 

I've had a couple of girlfriends as well as my current (2nd) wife ask whenever we saw a movie or show with gay guys, but it never seemed like a serious question. More rhetorical expecting my answer to be "no way!". So that's how I answered. When the truthful answer would have been "yes and I loved it and I think about doing it all the time, and more than just oral". Unfortunately if I told my wife that, her head would explode.

 

it's a shame that it is still so much more difficult for a man to openly admit it. I mean, if a guy asks his wife/gf if she has ever gone down on a woman before, I would think the chances are she would admit say if she has or hasn't, and the reaction from the guy would be much more positive either way.

Hopefully with time it gets easier for guys.

But I also think us women have a role to play in it as well in terms of how we ask the question and also making it comfortable for a guy to respond honestly, as opposed to guilting or shaming.

 

Yes, my finace, now wife, had a book of 100 questions to ask before getting married and one was if you had ever had a bisexual eperience. I answered yes, she asked me to tell her about it - i did, then she asked if I still enjoy it, which i do. She accepted it then and still does

 

Totally agree with you. From a guy's perspective, yes, it would be positive. Because most of enjoy girl/girl scenes. And if they haven't, *shrugs*, It's a win either way.

 

Female bisexuality is much more normalized than male bisexuality, even encouraged. But of course it's for the benefit of the entertainment of men. I admit as a man it arouses me. But I also respect it for its own sake. But I digress.
Unfortunately, male bisexuality is often equated with male homosexuality with men, and women are usually repulsed by it for various reasons. As long as women only feel free ot be sexual within the framework the patriarchy has imposed on them, they can never fully support men who wanna try guys, if at all. Many women don't feel that pressure and feel free to do their own thing and make up their own fucking mind. Unfortunately, many still do.

 

Right, there is that percentage of homosexual men who feel bisexual men are really homosexual but too scared to give up heterosexual privilege and/or face homosexual oppression.

 

I wouldn't categorically say that women are repulsed by it. For sure some are, that I won't deny. But, there are some that definitely are not repulsed by it either, and think it is awesome.

 

Can you spread the word to your female friends?
I even saw a Threads post where a gay guy was asked to leave a pub having a watch party of Heated Rivalry, about a gay & bi guy getting together vis hockey. Because 6 of the 20 women felt uncomfortable! His shirt said Gay AF on it and he visibly presented as gay!

YouGov Poll (2019): This survey found that only 28% of women expressed comfort with the idea of having a bisexual partner.

Taimi App Study (2023): Research by the LGBTQ+ dating app Taimi found that 92.2% of bisexual men felt they encountered significant difficulties when dating straight women.

ZAVA/DrEd Survey: Found that while 34% of women were open to or had already had sex with another woman, only 19% said they would date a bisexual person.

The Glamour Survey (2016): In a poll of over 1,000 women, 63% said they would not date a man who had sex with another man, even if it was a one-time experiment. This is notable because, in the same survey, 47% of those women reported being attracted to other women.

 

Honestly there seems to be a bit of hypocrisy in some of those facts.