Albolene. I love it and have been using it for years. It's a thinner slicker Vaseline. No smell, lasts forever, a little bit goes a long way, leaves everything soft and moisturized. You can get a tub of it at Walmart or the drug store in the facial cleansers aisle, white tub and a blue top. It lasts forever. Not silicone toy or condom friendly, though.
What he said ^^^^^^^^. I’d use Vaseline for ever. Then someone on here suggested Coconut oil, So I tried that for a while. Yeah it felt good, but it was a little too runny and could be messy. Then on the suggestion of ^^^^^^ I tried Albolene. WOW….. A game changer. What was that old commercial….. Brill cream, A little dab will do ya. Same with this stuff and everything mentioned above. Anal with my wife or pegging, we had always had used KY. For solo butt play It is a Condom wrapped dildo, and KY. Such an easier cleanup with the condom.. take it off and throw it away, and dildo is ready to go next time.
My wife and I have used water based lubes for both vaginal and anal sex, it cleans up easy but you have to reapply it constantly or else it's worse than no lube at all. These days even though we still use water based lubes on occasion, we use coconut oil for anal sex, silicone based lubes are supposed to be great for anal and vaginal but we haven't tried them yet
Buy a big can of Crisco that you cook with.Not the spray but the tub of grease.It wont hurt toys or your tool and its safe to eat.Then when your hungry after sex make some fried chicken with it.Its a multi tool for sex and food and life!
Anything of quality is not available at a drug store depending on your needs. If it's just for masturbation or male/female vaginal sex, Astroglide will do fine. But for anything anal (toys or sex) nothing readily available at a drug store will not do the trick. I like JO. It's available on Amazon and ships quickly. The regular JO is fine for vaginal sex and masturbation. But for anal you really need to buy anal specific lube. The JO anal lube is great. Also available on Amazon. Sorry this isn't the answer you wanted but take my word for it, major brand chain store stuff is not going to do the trick.
I like coconut oil or silicone lube if I am just focused on the front end of business. I really love long dildo sessions so I will use water based for back door. If it starts to run out I’ll just lube another one up and swap it out. I keep the stand by dildo in hot water so it’s warm for the next round of fucking. I take a condom put lube on the inside, roll it down. The ring acts as a mild cock ring and the condom keeps the lube from disappearing too quickly. This set up allows me to dildo and stroke for well… a long time 60+ plus. It’s awesome. Have to use water based lube for these sessions as all my dildos are silicone and oil will break the condom and silicone lube is not good with silicone toys.