I love giving and receiving with women. I have given to four in LTRs. The first one was my first real girlfriend…. we WERE both virgins. The first time was accidental. we were going at it one night and after she came (she was a real soaker) and I kept going. I did slip out, and in my exuberance to get back inside, I went into her butt. Got the “wrong hole“, and while apologizing, I went to withdraw, and she said no…. give it a minute. I held perfectly still, and then she said go slowly. so I did. She really liked it, and I liked it because I did not have to pull out when I came, and she couldn’t get pregnant that way. That became somewhat of a frequent session. The next two LTRs it started when I asked for their asses. I loved it, but neither one was a big fan. No Mas. My current wife was just the opposite. After a bad experience with her ex-husband, she was hesitant about trying it with me. Started slowly with small toys and plugs (for both of us) and when she said she was ready…. after a lot of lube…. we did it. And that first time she came HARD just from me and her bum. WOW! BUTT (pun intended) the deal was that if I got hers, she got mine. so he bought a nice quality strap on and we both loved it. Her orgasms were over the top, and she liked the reversal. My stimulated P spot orgasms were incredible. Our regular sex life was fantastic, back door fun needed prep. we started planning what we would call “A only nights” a couple times a month, and would write the dates down on our old paper calendar. We would both prep ahead of time and be ready to go.Damn, those nights were a lot of fun. A few times she would comment while she was drilling me, that she bet a real cock would feel better. Got me wondering…. Would it? What really got me off was when she would say that she was going to “come in me” That did it for me.