Mutual masturbation

It is hands down my favorite sex act. But also handy when I can't cum from sex but really need to get off. A lot of the time I'm fine not cumming but every once in a while... Anyway, once I know it's not gonna happen but I need to cum, rubbing one out with a woman and watching each other intensely always does the trick. Love it with friends, which has a very different purpose for me. It's not necessarily sex. It's more about the openness and body positivity. With a male friend, it's about enjoying a lovely thing together and even if it's not literally discussed, there's the comparing of how the other one does it, what our penises looks like. Sometimes, when I can tell it was something specific, I like noticing what pushed him over the edge to cum. With female friends its the intergender curiosity of getting to see someone else do what you do in a very different way. And also, the fact that a female friend is comfortable enough to do that with me is a big deal for my queer gender. Makes me feel like I'm just one of the girls. With trans or N/B friends, it's great for its own versions of one or two aspects of both of those paradigms.

 

When i got married i discovered i had a Nymphomaniac, every mans dream, but not what you think. Since i was hyper sexitive also i could stay in the saddle and we fucked day and night. She would get fantasy's and urges. I can understand because i was a lot the same way. I started masturbating at around 4 and me and the cousins would sometimes masturbate and pull each others dicks together. So i do realize getting so overwhelmed with sex that i can;t get things done until i get relief. Sometimes i would walk around outside naked and sometimes drove naked for the thrill of it. I drove coast to coast for a while and it was cheaper to masturbate than pay a Lot Lizard, VD or end up with a kid somewhere. Masturbation worked for me to trim extremes but still could fuck when i was home. So i never got into cheating myself.. Yes she cheated on me our whole married life. She was not out for an Affair or replacement and she kept me very satisfied but the thrill and fantastic pleasure and tried to never fuck the same guy twice so they would not get attached.

 

Cont- Her dad was also a compulsive cheater so she inherited it. It could be somewhat mental because is is so similar and he was not out for a replacement and would brag on his wife. Mine did somewhat the same It was like a different person with a second life? So i determined it was the strong compulsive desire that could have been trimmed by masturbation but they both were into the thrill and the extreme pleasure in it. She always suspected me of cheating also and said "Well you should because you really deserve it" To her i was missing out on the fun i should have been having. She said "some of the girls i know would just love to sleep with you really should"She always said that she never did anything wrong and it must have been like a fun sport or something. To her kids she was the best mom ever..

 

Mutual masturbation followed by cuddling is my favorite; i love naked body contact;
i had a cool mutual masturbation friend in college; he was a ballet guy;
I met him at a club and for some reason he liked me
He was really into getting his cock rubbed; he didnt last a minute and he was squirting in my hand;
we fell asleep; when we woke up, i did him again and he shot off in less than a minute;
The next day, after my evening shift at work, he showed up at my apartment;
Of course, I welcomed him in; he was such a nice guy too;
i got him to admit that another guy rubbing his cock was a huge turn on for him; he had bad experiences with men wanting to do anal with his firm ballet ass;
It took a few nights with him before he trusted me to just caress his nice firm ass, followed, of course, by a dick rub which he loved so much.
I miss him; I wish the best for him in my thoughts, especially at jacking time