I hope a woman can be cool if her man masturbates. I did human sexuality studies in college. A man that mastutbates before you intimate date will last longer. I got stories from frustrated women that her man barelyh gets in in and cums. If he masturbates, he will last longer inside the woman and give her pleasure before he expondes. Some clues: a. lube bottle near bed b. used tissues on the floor c. cum stains in the bed d. y'all please add more