What is your definiton of Bi?

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  1. stilllikeit

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    My definition of bi: likes both sexes
    Women and men bodies
     
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  2. Thom7

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    I only do it to get off. Being 98% hetero, I'd much rather lick a wet, juicy, hairy pussy! However, I will slurp on a cock of my preference.
     
  3. Jumper58

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    For me, I am definitely into women! But I wouldn’t turn down a nice looking cock. Lol I am being more bolder with age though
     
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  4. Tonynewyork6969

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    Sex with both men and women as are my fb and I. In my case I’m bi but not a bottom. I will top on occasion but enjoy a man blowing me. I have three guys who regularly call to service me besides my wife fb and a few soccer moms who I service
     
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  5. RisingBi

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    I think every answer you guys (and girls) are giving are all valid, and I won't argue with any of them. That's because I believe what matters is how each individual identifies bisexuality, or any sexual orientation identity. It is simply very personal, despite science trying to find objective answers, which I also believe is completely valid.

    I'm a man who now identifies as gay and only has sex with other men, and has had romantic crushes on a couple different men during the last couple of years, but has no interest in having sex, let alone romance, with a woman ever again--all since breaking up with my last girlfriend 6 years ago, after three years of hell with her. I still find women attractive and get aroused by their faces, breasts and asses (but not their pussies or personalities). For me personally, finding an objective answer for my sexuality and sexual orientation identity has always been important; but that's only me, and my very analytic mind, combined with my lifelong sexual identity struggles. I wish I could've been more like most of you guys.

    Nowadays, I identify as gay & Kinsey 5 (mostly homosexual, as opposed to Kinsey 6, [completely] homosexual, since I am attracted to and aroused by women's faces, breast and asses (if they're small, with zero hips)), and in retrospect believe I've been transitional homosexual--gradually transitioning throughout my life from Kinsey 1 ([completely] heterosexual), through to 3 bisexual, and finally to where I am now at 5. This is why I love the Semon et al. study (the first one linked in this post I quoted). Thanks so very much for referencing it, @TwinT! I love all aspects of that 2016 study (I have a science background, so could understand and appreciate most of it), and would love to hear about followups (maybe someday I'll search for them).

    I love their Arousal/Disgust chart survey portion (that @TwinT included a picture of in his post), and would've loved if they had included solo man and solo woman video clips in their PPG experiment (measurement of blood flow to the penis, i.e. penis arousal/erection levels), rather than just have MM and FF clips (which is how I understood it at least). I don't know whether some Kinsey 5 or 6 men enjoy lesbian porn partly because of the homosexuality of it, due to their loving everything homosexual, like I do, in contrast to enjoying it only because of some attraction/arousal to women (which as I wrote, I do have as well, at least to their face, breasts and ass). For example, seeing pictures of a solo woman with her legs spread, showing her vulva, disgusts me, because I now have such revulsion for the vulva (but I didn't in the past), but in FF porn I can handle it because of the homosexuality of one woman being shown licking the other woman's vulva: good for them! For me, gay rocks!

    Here are my answers to that Arousal/Disgust survey:

    1 = not at all, 2 = in between, 3 = moderately, 4 = in between, 5 = very much

    Inserting my penis in a woman's vagina: arousing=2, disgusting=4

    Inserting my penis in a man's anus: arousing=5, disgusting=1

    Inserting my penis in a woman's anus: arousing=3, disgusting=4

    Inserting my penis in a man's mouth: arousing=5, disgusting=1

    Inserting my penis in a woman's mouth: arousing=2, disgusting=3

    Having a penis inserted in my anus: arousing=4, disgusting=1

    Having a penis inserted in my mouth: arousing=5, disgusting=1

    Performing oral sex on a woman's genitals: arousing=1, disgusting=5

    Having a man penetrate my anus with a sex toy or other object: arousing=4, disgusting=2

    Having a woman penetrate my anus with a sex toy or other object: arousing=1, disgusting=5

    Participating in a threesome with two women: arousing=2, disgusting=3

    Participating in a threesome with two men: arousing=5, disgusting=1

    Masturbating to lesbian erotica: arousing=3, disgusting=2

    Masturbating to gay male erotica: arousing=5, disgusting=1
     
  6. KDaddy23

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    Wow... that's a lot...
     
  7. Bobbie Anderson

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    Well I don’t know how to answer, I seem to prefer women because even though they dominate me in a relationship I usually get a kiss after. I seem to enjoy woman more mature than I because I need the direction they provide me. One with a man is good because every once in a while you know, and I might want to breed some day. Anyway Thats all I got
     
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  8. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    I would say I’m 95% hetero, but have had a fair share of bi experiences an maybe once or twice a year getting gangbanged by lesbians with strap ons. I guess I am an omnivore?
     
  9. Scharff

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    Any kind of "vore" with you is good for me!
     
  10. LenaSilk

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    My very first definition of 'Bi' was learning very early that I loved the smell and taste of my own pussy, my juices on my fingers. A guy was my first, and an evening of hot hetero sex blew my fucking mind (I blogged about that). But when I was about 23 I had a relationship with a female roommate for about 3 months. Then several years later I made friends with a girl on vacation and that led to a hot threesome with my boyfriend.... which led to even more interesting discoveries. Overall I'm like Jenna, 95% of the time I want dick! but if another girl is there I can go for that too. All 3 of my female BFFs are about the same as me, we will all kiss a pussy as willingly as fucking and sucking a guy's dick, which I go for as often as I can.

    Do I 'talk too much'? :rolleyes:
     
  11. 6Sailor9

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    NO!!!! ;-)
     
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  12. Barefoot Rick

    Barefoot Rick I love my dirty bare feet

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    You don’t talk to much
     
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