I was having erections and masturbating at the age of 10. Girls didn't feature at all. It was purely self-pleasure. After the age of 12, the picture changed dramatically ... then it was ALL about girls.
Hell, I would love for me and my wife to be 38 again. We were both in our sexual prime, sexual soulmates. All she had to do was raise an eyebrow and SHWING! There was only one time that I could not keep it up…..three rounds in the morning, and she wanted #4 that early evening. Couldn’t keep/get it up. Thankfully, she understood, and I made up for it in the middle of the night. Had never had to use “rings” or “bands”, or any pills. Now almost 30 years later, the Mrs. has no interest or ability for sex. Age=Sucks. so since I am now solo, I will occasionally use rings or fans just as a kink. Between my mental visuals, and my right hand or Fleshlight….. it does the kinky trick.