I’m curious as to why as straight men get older the thought of sucking cock becomes appealing? I have only had sex with women my whole life and still love being with women. I saw a video of a guy in bed with a trans woman and performing oral on her. I was instantly aroused! One day I got the chance to perform oral on a guy and it was exciting like the first time I got laid!!! I still love women of all types,but I must admit I am open to giving head whenever it’s appropriate. I have absolutely no interest in a romantic relationship with a man. I just found out that I enjoy giving head. Why???
You've asked a question that I have spent decades trying to find the answer to! This is one of those things where I have no idea why this happens to guys and "out of the blue" - I just know that it happens. It's not unusual to not have any romantic interest in a guy and despite what a lot of guys think should be in place. I used to think that no man wakes up one morning and decides that today is a good day to suck a dick - and then I found out that a lot of guys wake up thinking this - and they have no idea why... ...and neither do I. I've told guys to not worry about or overthink it; it appears to be normal for a lot of men and for 'unknown' reasons and while it can threaten one's sense of masculinity and trigger fears of being homosexual, yeah, a lot of men find that even though they're all about the pussy, sucking cock when they want to... just works, too, because at the end of the day, it's really just sex.
It is way more common than you think it is. Sexuality is a continuum, our desires and preferences change over time.
Another man's cock has the equal amount of power that a pussy provides and as we age for some reason another man's cock is far more appealing to us than a woman's pussy.
Personally I love pussy and I always will. I tried sucking cock and I found that I liked doing it. In a perfect world my wife would be as open to new ideas concerning sex. I’m open to group sex with us both going at it with both sexes. Her eating pussy and me sucking cock. I love the look and taste of fresh cum!
Existentialism. This goes for anything. I think as people get older, they realize time is finite. If there is something you want to do, you better do it while you can. Getting older makes you give a fuck less about what others might think, too.
That's what some guys had told me; they feel the clock running out and, yeah, being older does give you that "I don't give a fuck about what someone might say!" attitude. With some guys... it just makes sense when it never made sense before. Another guy, just before he went down me said, "Hey, it seems like a good idea!" and proceeded to give me a really good blow job and for someone who (a) had never done it before and (b) never even thought about doing it until the day he got on A4A and hit me up. Many years before, I'd been sitting and talking with a neighbor when, out of the blue, he asked me, "Why do I have this sudden urge to suck your dick?" and he was clearly confused by this urge... and I didn't have an answer for him. We',d gotten into it - he caught on pretty quickly - and we'd sucked each other off twice before he said, "Now why do I feel whole, like I'd been missing something?"
I think part of it how society is constantly changing. In the 1950's hetrosex was seldom discussed and homosex could get your ass beat. As time has progressed society has gotten more open minded. Think of profanity in n movies. What was the first time profanity was used in a major movie? Gone With the Wind. "Frankly my Scarlett I don't give a damn." People were shocked but didn't put up much of a fuss. Now profanity is found in at least half of the movies. It has become more acceptable. Same thing with sex. When I was a teenager in the 1960's was never interested in sex with another guy. In my 30's I would very occasionally wonder about it. When my wife started using a finger on me while giving me oral I thought about it more. When she started using a dildo on me I understood why some guys do it. When she told me that the real thing felt much better and I should try it I thought why not. I did and enjoyed the hell out of it. Since then I found out that I love sucking cock also.
Before my mid 30s I never considered it, but then met a trans girl who looked very feminine & after a few times seeing each other in a non-sexual context, I met her in a bar. We got to chatting and agreed to go to a hotel together, with no expectations. She was very patient with me and we spent 4 hours together and during that time I both sucked cock for the 1st time and got fucked by a penis. I've had 5 partners with penis's since then, 2 trans and 3 bi, and have enjoyed them enormously. Most of my sexual encounters are hetero, but I'm quite happy with partners of either sex, or any gender. I have to admit that while I'm bearded, I prefer my male partners to be smooth and generally more effeminate.
No easy answer I guess. For me, it was taking and losing a sports bet. I lost...had to suck my first cock. BUT, I knew what the bet was before I agreed and I honestly asked myself what the big deal was. I'd watched...in person...lots of men suck cock and take cum and it was neither good nor bad so I figured, why not. It was different...but good. My female friend just ate her first pussy at 57 years old and loved it but she said if we were talking about it 20 years ago she would have been horrified to think of it. Hard to say why age plays such a big role.
Sexless marriages and getting older…. Both of us. Menopause is a bitch! I LOVE women, But not the extra baggage that would come with an affair. But with married bi guys my age, Discrete and it is just sexual outlet That we are not getting at home.A different outlet. Like “hey… Wanna go play golf? Hit the pub afterwards? Then we can have some fun”. Neither one of us want to go through another divorce, So we keep our yaps shut…. So to speak.
A lot of the older guys I fuck are just finding that their wives are no longer interested and so they not only look to someone else but also to do other things and yes, ducking cock is one thing they think about.
I agree Jenna, I know I was so sexually frustrated while in my late 30's I allowed another guy to give me blow jobs. It was easier than getting involved with a woman and it wasn't long after getting a few blow jobs from other guys I too was giving blow jobs and enjoying myself far more than I ever expected.
