Men are easier …opportunities endless

Growing up, one of the things that became crystal clear to me and the male cadre that hung out together was that it was easier to have sex with each other than trying to talk a girl into it. Yes, there were the girls that parents labeled as being Hot in the Ass and we were cautioned to stay away from them... and you know we didn't but of all the girls in the neighborhood, only six of them "qualified" to be hot in the ass and because they were so popular, their availability was always an issue and "maybe later" or "maybe tomorrow" wasn't going to work for a guy whose hormones were redlined, his dick was hard enough to hammer nails, and his ball were starting to hurt. Really bad. The solution? Plenty of guys [like me] who were more than happy to, ahem, help fix this problem and without any strings attached, conditions, promises, or any of the other things needed to have sex with a girl.

A guy would suck your dick and swallow your stuff (if you had any to swallow); a guy would let you fuck him in the ass and without a single complaint. The guys I hung out with were more versatile than anything else or, if you do it to me, I get to do it to you and it was non-negotiable and, really, a given and it usually went without saying unless it was being explained to a new guy. We still chased the girls; we'd catch them and if we were lucky, we'd get to fuck them - and I upped my "value" once I learned how to eat pussy but many of the other guys weren't having any of that so their chances of getting pussy were slim... but it wasn't that much of a problem because, again, there was always a guy willing, ready, and able to have sex and the only question asked would be, "Where are gonna go to do this?"

You went there and dicks got sucked, balls emptied, "system recharged" and everything got repeated. Who needs girls and all their crazy stuff when we had this one gay guy who was, simply, amazing to have sex with and could make you forget about having sex with a girl. Guys in other parts of the city weren't so fortunate or the "boys having sex with each other" thing hadn't awakened and spread in some neighborhoods. You could be hanging out with a guy, looking for stuff to do, trying to stay out of trouble (usually) and the two of you couldn't agree on what to do... but the one thing you could agree on?

Let's go somewhere and do it to each other. We could go looking for one or two of the Hot in the Ass girls but, eh, why waste time trying to find one of them when we can just go and start doing it? Even getting into adulthood, comparatively speaking, it was still easier to get a guy to whip his dick out to be sucked and a very good chance he was going to suck yours (and even if he'd never done it before); plenty of guys who weren't gay who liked being fucked and many who didn't mind lubing up and giving a male butt a good reaming out. Way easier than trying to talk a woman out of her panties... and even if it was your woman you were trying to have sex with, and she wasn't having any of it. Ask her for a blowjob? You done lost your motherfuckin' mind! Is that all the fuck you ever think about? Damn!

But "Dean" around the corner would suck your dick without question or hesitation and if you didn't ask him, he'd probably ask you if you wanted to get sucked off - and who didn't? I won't tell if you won't.

Men and women get older. Menopause robs a lot of women of their desire and ability to have sex - and their issues are mental as much as they are physical but men, well, there's ED to be concerned with but the desire and need to have sex is still there and if you couldn't find a woman to give you some, um, shit, there are apps and websites where there are thousands of guys looking to have sex with other guys and now, all you gotta do is find one who is going to suit your needs, immediately or on a more long-term basis. Indeed, men get to a certain age and "all of a sudden," having sex with men becomes a "thing" that pops into their heads and over time - and given certain situations - the need to do it can no longer be ignored. "Bill" meets "Dean" and they get it on with each other and... who the fuck knew this could be so goddamned good?

That would be any and all guys who'd already found out about this way to have sex. It's 2025 and it's not really that easy to have sex with a guy - lots of reasons for that and as you all well know - but it's still easier to get some dick than it is to get some pussy and especially when you need to have sex. Now. Not later.

 

And some of us men, like me big-time, feel like we're wired to want to give our sperm to other men. As a childless man, and one who has never fucked any of the three women I've slept with without a condom on (except my last girlfriend who I fucked her ass bareback a bunch of times and was able to share my cum with her anally)--the condoms with my two girlfriends were because neither wanted to be on the pill--I feel like I was born to share my sperm with other men, to figuratively breed their assholes and bodies with my cum seed essence. I love the idea of sharing my "gay DNA" with another man, and it merging with his body and becoming one with him. It's why I've gone on PeEP, with quarterly STI testing and careful vetting of candidates to fuck bareback.

At 63, I abhor the idea of impregnating a woman and becoming a father late in life. No, my sperm still seeks a partner, but a male one, to receive it until I reach a ripe old age and/or am dead. It's other men that I want to breed with, and for me it's very much an actual breeding with guys that I desire. It's not that I want to impregnate a guy (i.e. that leads to birth of another human being), but rather a kind of merging of our DNA, through his asshole and mine, the union of my cock and his ass, and his cock and my ass--a beautiful gay union. The older I've become, the more gay I've become. And the more I want another man (or men) and I to share our cum and sperm with each other, deep inside each other.

 

At 70, it would kinda tickle me to wind up being a daddy again and knowing that I might not live long enough to see them turn 18 - but I'd worry about that if I had to. I learned a long time ago that if you swallow the guy's cum, you can't get pregnant, you know, that that my being a guy means I can get knocked up but I've been inseminated by a lot of guys that if I were female, I'd have a whole lot of children.

Having said this and prompted by what RisingBi said, I still stand a better chance getting a man in my bed than a woman who'd have to be concerned with me putting a bun in her oven...

 

I guess that's why having sex with another guy can feel so freeing. We can go wild in the sex we have without any worry that our sperm will create a child that we don't want. Intimacy without committed responsibility. Damn, it's great to be a bi or gay man!

 

With all due respect to the wonders and joys of same sex fun, how is this feeling of freeing different from hetero sex using any of the various methods of birth control?

 

Condoms can break or leak and female birth control can fail or not be all that effective and some women on birth control have gotten pregnant so when this is a consideration having sex with fertile women who may not want children, that sense of feeling free, I think, gets diminished. Sure, she can get that morning after pill, which can be a good thing for just-in-case; now compare that to giving your bud a blowjob or engaging in anal sex. While there are things in this to take into consideration, you know that if you bust a nut anywhere in your male sex partner, unless there's something very different about him, no babies and no risk of babies.

 

They aren't.

 

I'd love to hear straight (no pun intended) from a woman or more.

 

Truthfully? There are a lot of women who are really easy to have sex with. The problems are (1) finding one and (2) you can't find her because she's off the market and making some other guy happier than he's ever been. For bisexual men, the answer to the question of what do you do when you can't get any pussy has been to either spend lots of time jerking off or... be bold and daring and have sex with a guy, from 'simple' blowjobs to knockdown, dragged out, you feel like you got mugged sex with a guy.

What's not easy these days seems to be finding the guy who can meet exacting specifications. Hosting has been an even bigger problem and while the answer to this problem used to be head for the closest "no-tell motel," but since a lot of such places don't take cash and require a debit or credit card, leaving that paper trail could be a big problem and especially for guys in a relationship and their lady is managing the bills. Guys who want that dick bad enough always find a way to get it and even with these... complications, it's still easier to get some dick than to get some pussy...

 

RisingBi suggested: What I am really looking forward to is much more personal and intimate experiences with a group of individual guys on an ongoing basis, just our being close friends together, doing lots of friendship kinds of things together, and really going all out passionately sucking and fucking each other, breeding each others assholes, deep passionately kissing, making powerful love together, such as only two gay men can do. Now that I have come out to myself as gay, with little or no interest in ever having sex with a woman again, maybe falling in love with a guy, That is infinitely better to anonymously sucking hundreds of cocks and swallow their warm juiced for decades.