Can Transactional sex be a relationship

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Tito smith, Jan 21, 2026 at 5:46 PM.

  1. Tito smith

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    I’m a 41m and currently live with a 23f for the past 4 years. She initially needed a place to stay for supposedly a short time and exchange for staying with me we’d hook up. That was 4 years ago she still lives with me has no job and we have two kids. Guess we’re in a relationship
     
    Tito smith, Jan 21, 2026 at 5:46 PM
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  3. drock69

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    Sounds like it! Her plan worked to perfection!
     
    drock69, Jan 22, 2026 at 6:23 AM
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  5. Ray Roberts

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    But are you happy would be my question to you both! And what does your mother of the children say about it? If I were you I would be content with how things worked out because at first you must have been in the market for a "quick fuck" yourself.
     
    Ray Roberts, Jan 22, 2026 at 4:22 PM
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  7. Bazz888

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    Are you complaining? Lol

    If it works well for you both and the children have a stable upbringing, then isn’t it a good thing?
     
    Bazz888, Jan 22, 2026 at 6:08 PM
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