Do your partners like or dislike mutual masturbation?

If it's not an LDR, I'm not sure how much point there is in mutual masturbation because you could always just have sex instead. If it is long-distance, MM is all you'll have, so might as well make the most of it.

 

It's deeper than that. It breaks down a barrier in a relationship and puts something perceived as forbidden, hidden, and/or taboo out in the open. It can also be a learning experience on how to better please your partner.

I like steak more than chicken, but just because I can have it every time doesn't mean I won't enjoy chicken on occasion

 

i am gay; mutual mostly accepted here; the standing joke is when 2 top men meet, it mutual; I think mutual is cool; I love feeling another mans rock hard boner and especially getting squirted on

 

my favorite things are cuddling and mutual masturbation. so my parters are into it. I saw your other post; i am baffled why your partner would not do it with you.; I have done both men and women; if he/she lets me hold them close, i can feel their shudders/quakes when they have orgasm; such a great feeling; hopefully you will find a fun partner soon

 

I get the desire to get right to it. A new relationship is also a perfect time to introduce mutual masturbation so it becomes part of your routine and shows him how you like to be touched

 

My wife isn't really into touching herself in general and has never been comfortable with doing it in front of me so my attempts at MM haven't really gone anywhere

 

Introduce her to self pleasure by using a vibrating dildo on her then guide her hand onto it and ask her to take over letting her know you want see and learn what movements and strokes she enjoys. This might help with her inhibitions. ;-)

 

Thanks for the tip. I've tried stuff like that in the past. Biggest issue is that she didn't grow up with a healthy view of masturbation as part of your life. I ended up buying her a suction vibe a few years ago and I think it's helped her take a few small steps

 

Well I would bring in the suction vibe and try dildo approach as I mentioned;-)