Questions I Always Wanted To Ask Women.

A couple of questions that I always wanted to ask a woman. They involve things like jewelry, which men usually wear less of. Also men tend to have less complicated things, like hairstyles, clothes, etc. too.

One is about rings. Rings on your fingers I mean, of course. I was wearing some costume jewelry rings about 20 years ago. And when I was out shopping or whatever, I'd just take them off when I had to wash my hands. As I said, they were cheap and worthless, so I didn't have to worry about losing them. But I don't think that happened ever anyways. But I was told early on, that people usually leave things like wedding rings on all the time. 24-7 IOW. When the sleep, when they shower, when they wash their hands. Doesn't grease and dirt, and really even soap from washing your hands, get caught under the rings then? How do you deal with that? Also odd is bar soap, like Ivory soap. People still sometimes use bar soap. It would seem to me that the rings on your fingers would keep scraping off pieces of the soap bar. Making what I just described above worse. I was thinking once, if you bent or bowed your finger out (tenting your fingers I think is also the name for this) as you rubbed the bar onto your hands under the water, that might avoid that. Is that true?

Also the clasp of necklaces. I've noticed when women wear them around their necks and it is visible outside of their blouses, the clasp always stays in place. Behind the back of the head, IOW. I don't think it would for me. It would keep moving around. But women don't adjust it, at least not in public. That's an undignified and even unladylike thing to do. So how do they keep the clasp in place? It always seems to stay in same place, behind their head on the back of their neck. How do they do that? Or is it the way they move? Avoid moving their neck in a certain way?

Like I said, I've wondered these things for some time now.

 

Several years after my divorce, after I became totally frustrated with men, I started wearing my old wedding rings again as a form of men-repellant. Once I had my coming out, and my partner and I agreed to marry, my old wedding rings became my new wedding rings. On one ring finger. The other ringfinger, I wear a pride ring.

 

Rings as men-repellants, lol

 

When you get soap on a ring setting, water still washes it off nicely. I don't take mine off but I wash several times a day with bar soap- Ivory wouldn't you know. As far as a neckless they usually have some sort of pendant in front which keeps the clasp in the back. I don't think its unladylike to adjust the necklace. But it is definitely unladylike to fiddle with your bra straps.