do you have this problem? i do.

maybe it stems from my child hood... being told what to do from parents.. teachers.. peers- telling me they were gonna beat me up cause i was a lesbian....

then when i was seventeen... not being allowed out past 9 pm on week ends (typo)
(my mom's rules)..... being MADE to go to church til 18 years old.

being MADE to see counselors, take meds. all my life....

then my relationships... not allowed to have male friends, getting beat up (with no say)

SOOO no excuses just the truth. I DO NOT DEAL AT ALL... NOT EVEN NOT WELL... BUT AT ALL... WITH BEING TOLD WHAT TO DO....

i trust myself. me a good girl. but if someone FORCES me into something. it brings back memories and id rather do things for ME not cause someone TELLS ME TO.

so yeah i question authority. not cause i dont always agree. but i want my room to breathe... FINALLY. i feel like it's been taken away again.

arrr.. i hate it. ill DO things.. just dont FORCE ME.

does anyone else have this problem?

 

not quite...but it really bugs me when someone will explain to me something i already know.

 

i guess i should be more .. i dunno.. specific..

someone that is not my boss saying "you NEED to do this TODAY!!!!"

it's like

um am i twelve?

ill do it but dont act like you own me.

 

I'm like that too. If someone's trying to control me and telling me what I should do, I pretty much do the exact opposite.

 

I dislike authority rather extremely. Especially when I'm about to do something, then someone tells me to do it, that really annoys me.

 

no. but if girls wanna be lesbain I say go head. it is good to see girls today fight for there rights. to do any thing a man can do.

 

im on strike .....im not doin nothin as it never pays off ......id like rosalyn sanchez to force me to please her ......or at least 5 10mg vicodan ....a.s.a.p.

 

me too. im spiteful.

its like you dont trust me to do it????

you can TALK TO ME. im reasonable. but if you COMMAND me. i do the opposite... im VERY VERY VERY stubborn and i know it usually hurts me more then anyone else.

 

tis true. i try and try and try but cause my parents have... fuck it....

 

That's the funny thing, if someone asks me to do something, there's like a 95% chance I will (I don't say no much.. :&), but if they tell me to do something, I won't.

 

heh... that's how i am. but some people dont get it.

 

used to have sort of the same things going on, always had to fullfill other folks expectations.. then l think I hit about 27 and thought "it's my life".. Since then have done what l felt was right for me. Achieved well too..

 

i have this thing. i'll be sat doing something, and then someone will say, "Adam, go and put the stuff in the draw", and i'll freak out. i hate authority and stuff

 

I have a huge problem with authority because I've never had any my entire life. I have never been 'told' what to do I was given choices always even when I was like 4. Once when I was really little my grandpa smacked my hand for touching the stove and I bawled and wouldn't talk to him for the rest of the day...no one told me what to do after that heh. I run my own thing at work and rarely communicate with my boss and I have huge issues in school now because i can't follow a prompt for essays because I simply hate being told what to do. My ex boyfriend was very bossy and controlling and I would delibratley not do what he asked me to because I just couldn't stand it. I'm an adult and am perfectly capable of knowing what I need to do and carrying it out so there's really no reason for anyone to tell me what to do.

 

I feel the way most people seem to, I hate being told what to do...even while working I hate when people don't phrase their commands in a good way.

I've generally got a plan in my mind, even if it doesn't appear so on the outside.

 

i'm the biggest fucking mule on the face of the planet. don't ever expect something done if you don't ask nicely. something that i woulda done anyway? doesn't matter.

 

This is a big issue with me. And i see it bothering me with the littlest things. Like for instance when my boyfriend and I go shopping at a store he gets annoyed when i want to go look at something and he tells me I cant....That really bugs me.

 

then when i was seventeen... not being allowed out past 9 pm on week ends (typo)
(my mom's rules)..... being MADE to go to church til 18 years old.




That much I had to deal with until I was 18 and I told my dad I didn't believe in the church and everything and he would tell me that I did. Also my actual bedtime was 9 pm on every night when I was 18.

Something about me that I don't do as much as I used to is that I will do the opposite of what someone tells me to do just because they told me to do something, actually it depends on what they're telling me to do and how they tell me. But I would not do things that I had already decided to do if someone else came along and told me to do it.

Just recently I've become a punk and I'm overly afraid of disappointing someone. But a few days ago I did cut my hair when my mom and grandma had a long conversation with me a few weeks ago telling me not to. I spent the past few weeks really wanting to and not doing it but finally I just said screw them.

 

i hate when my dad asks me to do fucking pointless little odd jobs and tasks, ones that he could easily do himself. it selfish. i only like to help people when i know they need help.