I finally have a great boyfriend!!

The other day he finally loosened up after 2 1/2 years and let me be topless around his friends. We had a sleep over at his friends house and we all slept almost naked and cuddled together. It was amazing. We gave each other back rubs and tickled under the blankets and he is totally cool with it now.

not really a confession, but it felt nice to tell people.

 

what did his friends think? just curious because i know i wouldnt be comfortable having (if i had a g/f) my g/f topless around my friends...

 

they thought it was great. no one got aroused, we just slipped into this level of comfort. We laughed and danced together. It made all our friendships stronger after that because there was so much trust. Erik knows that when all is said and done, I come home with him. He is my heart and soul and he knows I'm faithful. I just like to be free and everyone thought it was very brave and confident of both of us.

 

How do you know nobody got aroused?

 

I guess i don't know for sure, but everyone respected me and no one made me feel embarassed or slutty or anything. It was such a chill experience. We sat around, watched TV and everyone acted as though it was normal. A lot of my freinds are pretty open minded so it really didn't phase them too much.

Plus, I got itty bitty titties so there's not much to look at anyway.

 

how did I destroy my relationship? None of his freinds want to fuck me, nad they would never hurt Erik like that. Neither would I.

What's wrong with being topless in a private, natural setting? nudity is natural. I don't flash everyone that walks by, just our close friends that I practically live with.

Erik is much happier now that he can trust me and his freinds.

Besides, to each thier own.

 

why is a woman's body such a bad thing?

I think we're beautiful

 

I'm all about nudity, but....to just walk around topless around your boyfriends friends just for the sake of doing it. That's kind of...I don't know how to put this...I guess, weird.

I've been topless in public and as far as that goes, I don't see a problem with it, but just to do it around a small group of your boyfriend's friends seems...weird. And to all sleep next to each other and tickle? Um, that's bordering on acting slutty. Now, don't want everyone to get their panties in a bunch for saying that. I didn't call headymoechick a slut, I said that's kind of a slutty action.

I'm really openminded, but I couldn't imagine having a party with a bunch of my boyfriend's friends and walking around topless...that's kind of...uh, asking for it.

 

its hilarious that the only difference between a boyfriend and a great boyfriend involves him letting you go topless around other people.

 

*Laughs*

Good point.

 

I said that because I thought it was great that he trusts me and his friends so much that we can all be free. you think I was the only one? Some of the guys got naked and were flopping thier cocks around and it was just no big deal. I love the fact that he trusts me so much and is proud of my body.

Plus, I don't care what those guys think. Being nude is great and free and I love it. Some people don't go for it and that's cool, too. But how dare anyone associate me being topless with sex. It wasn't sexual at all. I'm no slut and SO devoted to my man. I just learned to love my body and be free whenever the opportunity arises.

 

who fucking cares, in Europe they walk around naked on the beach.

What's the big deal, why is it so important to you?

 

I wasn't talking to you.

 

this has nothing to do with sexuality. It has to do with my man feeling comfy enough to let me be free and natural.

Just because you don't agree doesn't mean you should bash me for it. There are plenty of ways to tell my your opinion without making assumptions and rude comments. you think what we did was immature? Your responses alone are much more childish.

I already stated it wasn't a party. we were hanging out, eating ecstacy and it felt good. We laughed and talked and had a good time. nothing changed. No ones attitude was different than it was when I have my clothes on.

 

and with the trust thing, I meant I was super happy that Erik felt that I wanted to be free instead of just showing off. (like I have much to show off anyway)

our friends are very comfy with nudism and thats all. My man understood and he let go of the feeling that nudism is "wrong" or 'dirty"

that's why I think he's so great. He's open minded and he loves me.

 

how childish and ignorant the chick is! I am speechless

 

I really think there should be some pictures before anyone forms an opinion.

 

It's too bad some people still link nudity with sex when really it's just natural and beautiful and free.

That's why my boyfriend is better than you guys!