Do you close the door?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by dhs, Jun 7, 2004.

  1. schatzi

    schatzi Member

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    Well I just went through a breakup not too long ago and I keep a box of stuff that reminds me of him under my bed. One day I'll be able to look at it and not start crying. It's just the waiting for that day that really sucks!
     
  2. FunkyPhreshMama

    FunkyPhreshMama Visitor

    hehe my best friend is a guy i kissed when i was 14...
    . and my other best friend is a gay guy i used to have a crush on LOL
     
  3. akhc

    akhc Member

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    :( u'll get there and soon.. it's hard to let go of the past but time heals all wounds..
     
  4. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    i don't know how to do closure. i don't really need it, though i try to be accomodating. i'm used to saying goodbye. quick goodbyes are always better than long ones. i've never met anyone yet that i can't live without. i just enjoy their company and friendship while i can.
     
  5. schatzi

    schatzi Member

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    it helps when there's a great guy to talk to and make you happy again
     
  6. booshnoogs

    booshnoogs loves you

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    This is the reason I love you so much. Your so frickin' rational and well adjusted.
     
  7. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    ah, you didn't read my post on how i terrify people.
     
  8. cerridwen

    cerridwen in stitches

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    To be honest, initially I thought you ment if people close the door if they go to th bathroom or something... :p


    But yes, closure is important for me... I do my best to be open with the people I know, including if we decide to part ways... there's no use in misleading someone!
     
  9. majorhemp

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    i don't need it but closure definatly helps.
     
  10. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    I have a hard time w/ closure. pieces of me went into the relationship and its hard for me to disconnect from those strings that still want to be tied to that person. however, eventually i realize that there is a reason from the closure being needed and i move on, i still look back and see them in my view, i just wear different glasses:)
     
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