My GUT feeling!! That womens intuition thingy!! Having bad feelings 'bout boyfriend!

OK I have been with my boyfriend for about a year (yes the same one I might have posted about b4)....as bad of a relationship it was, we are still together. We use to argue alot...he has anger issues....HE broke it off with me this last xmas....then a week later begged for me to give him another chance....and I did. I know it sounds crazy...but for the last couple months it has been wonderful and I thought he had a hold of his anger....he has been so great to me recently....but one odd thing is he keeps buying me things and is always giving me money...lots of money that i dont ask for. He says its his way of saying sorry for making me mad. He is afraid to get mad at all cuz he is afraid i will leave him...so in turn he has held in his anger, instead of dealing with it like I thought he was doing. Last nite he was mad for some reason that had nothing to do with me...but he ended up taking it out on me...talking to me condensendingly....cussing and raising his voice. So in short....he is showing his old self. But what I am having a weird feeling about is that he is being unfaithful.

Whenever he is at my house or out with me he turns his cell phone off once he realizes its on, says cuz the charger isnt charging or cuz his bill is high. But the thing is he AINT TALKIN TO ME ON IT! He doesnt use it around me.....so what the heck is going on. Why hasnt he got a new charger in the last 3 or 4 months!? And then he tells me hes not sure why the bill was so high but that he was gonna keep it off for the week....then I ended up calling it cuz I wasnt getting through to his house and IT WAS ON! Not to mention i found a girl he use to go out with;s number in it about a month ago....he was showing me something and accidentally scrolled down his peeps list and her name was there....of course he gave me this dumb excuse. So *sigh*....he tells me he only wants me and loves me so much...blah blah....but i have been cheated on and i just have a bad feeling.....what do you guys think? I dont have any evidence so dont know what to do......

 

dump his ass.......

 

your mother trained you to be abused. You must break this cycle before you are murdered.

 

ps...start calling your self KNOWING EMPOWERED ONE and STOP BEING *NICE*. often....*nice* can eventually
equal *dead*.

 

Run!!!

 

run.

 

run and never look back! there are a lot of really good men out there and no one has to settle for someone who isn't worthy of them. i'd rather be alone than with a man who treated me angrily (for any reason) or lied to me.