Almost sounds like you're on the rebound from a relationship you didn't have! But I do know what you’re talking about… and I think you have two options, you leave your girlfriend to pursue this other girl; or you slow down this current relationship to get a handle on it. My vote goes to option number two. You might have feelings for this other girl, but it most likely didn’t work out between you two for a reason. So take it slow, give your girl a chance and hopefully you’ll be surprised.
Well that wasn't very nice....sheesh, all I'm trying to do is ask for advice. I didn't realize that wasn't allowed here.... Hey look, at least I'm not asking..."ladies, is my penis too small?" Like most every thread here...
Just to tell you all, I broke up with her a little over a week ago. It went well, and everything is fine. We're still good friends, and shall remain so. We talk all the time still, so its cool. This was just the best move for her, because I would have done it anyways, so it might as well be early on.
Butters~ Sounds like you finally got everything figured out. You seem like a really nice guy and I am sure there is someone out there for you. Until you find her, just have fun, enjoy your life and try to meet new people. You may run into the women of your dreams where you least expect to. Good luck Butters!
Thanks alot! Yea, I've FINALLY got that attitude now. It could just be the ncie weather now...who knows. But I'm actually very happy right now. I'll meet someone somewhere sometime, and until then, I'm going to enjoy my life!...............and maybe keep swooning over the girl I really like...in private. lol But yea, I'm in a great mood right now.
When you seek something you don't have - all that observe you know you are clutivating lack - and will keep safe distance so as to not bring your lack into their life. When you seek the riches within yourself - all that observe you know you are cultivating inner wealth - and will enjoy just being in your presence. Congrats butters-
Thank you, Yogi. You're my biggest fan!!! Hahaha Oh yea, I'm still trying to go after that original girl I had been talking about.....I don't know for sure, but I think she MAY be starting to like me...we'll see.
Thanks for that wisdom, no joke, i think you hit the nail on the head, so true, so easy to forget. peace