suppose you had a boyfreind who had just cheated on you a few weeks earlier and you broke up but you really loved him and both seemed to be working towards getting back together. you forgive him. then as you think things are getting better he tells you the girl he cheated on you with wants to speak to him to try and patch up what ever relationship she thought they had at the time. and so reluctantly you agree coz you know he will go anyway and you trust that he doesnt want to be with her any more. and so the next day your boyfreind goes to see this girl and that afternoon you give him a call coz you want to hear what happened. he says nothing really happened at all and you should come over. so when you get there you end up having sex with him. and then afterwards he goes to put on clothes that are in his bag and says very casually as if it is normal, "I brought clothes with me because i wasnt sure if id be spending the night at her house or not". and then soon after admitting that although he isnt particularly interested in her that if she came onto him he wouldnt really be able to say no. would you be angry, and what would you do about it, when everytime you try to talk to him about it he just says that you are over reacting and storms off? of course you dont think it is a good idea that they see eachother, and when you carefully suggest this he very angrily says that he doesnt like being told what he can and cant do...
I wouldnt' date someone who had cheated on me. I'm sorry, but the majority of cheaters do not reform. There are some who do, but they are few and far between. Especially if he TELLS YOU that he will sleep with her again, if she comes onto him. If he won't listen to a suggestion from you, or let the two of you try to discuss it, say good bye. Well, that's just my take on it at least. You can find someone who will respect you a lot more than that.
...well actually they never slept together but the idea and intent was there. he really wanted to, and got pretty close...
Ok so he may not have cheated technically, but he told you he wouldn't say no if she tried hard enough? Personally no amount of love i feel for a guy could ever make me stay in that relationship. I would rather hurt for a little while now, then hurt loads later. Trust me, ditch him, hes no good for you. You deserve better, much better
lolol yeah i forgot it was about his friend oooooops! well i guess he just has to tell his friend then
What would I do? I'd say PEACE OUT! He's not worth it. Move on to someone that wouldn't say ignorant things like that. But, at least he was honest!
NEVER EVER PUT UP WITH THAT SHIT!!!!!!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater! Sounds like a looser anyway!
i would be sooooooooooooo angry, i would just leave and never talk to him ever again, but what do i know im only 13.
sometimes no matter how much you love someone, and how much they claim to love you, actions just speak louder than words...so why stay with someone who's actions totally contradict their words?
Sounds like he still has feel'ns for the other girl,any way you want to put it. Unless you like gett'n hurt,I would think you'd drop him. Move on to greener pastures. Cause there are some ya know!!!!!!! Just keep your chin up,and take your time in your search..........................Peace Baby!
