ok, here goes, i just broke up with guy i thought was so right for me but once we got together it sucked. he wont quit bothering me and he wont quit asking me back. my friends are pissed that i left him because they say that i was happy, how the hell do they know if i am happy? he was so immature with me and would say that he loves me so much it didnt sound sincere, he is being so anoying begging me back and he doesnt understand that i dont feel comfortable with him. he doesnt quit staring at me and he says that he will never stop, why is he being sooo immature? if he really cares abt me he would leave me alone, he would want me to be happy, he is being so selfish!! i think i just had a crush and it is over now, why doesnt he understand? please dont even think this is a cute way of trying to get me back, it is so stpid, he is making a fool of himself! i wrote him a note that said i would be happier and better off without him and he doesnt underdstand! my friends dont even try to listen to my opinion and they keep saying i should get back with him! HELP!!! how do i get him to leave me alone? i told him that i dont like it when we are datind and he says that is normal for couples, bu it is not is it? i mean, you should feel comfortable with your b/f or g/f right? why wont he leave me alone? if he loves me like he says he does why is he tourtureing me so deeply? i am never going back with him, i feel inslaved with him and i dont like it! he never let me be alone, i asked if i could sit with my friends for a few days just to make sure he was ok withit and he said if i did he would sit there too, i told him ALONE for a few hours that we talked abt it and he kept clinging!! he wouldnt even give me a hug yet he could never let me out of his sight! i need a guy that will understand my feelings and will cuddle, but wont be controlling, will i ever find the right guy? i need a specisl someone who will want the best for me and not for his greedy emotions, over the 5 days me & josh dated i made so many sacrifices and he sat there so greedily and never even said thanks! i need a guy who cares, is there anyone like that in the world? why must i have so much trouble? all my b/f's are trouble, does any one have any solutions? i need a good boy.
I'm guessing he wont leave you alone because he's a pathetic loser. Saying that it's normal for couples to not like each other is just stupid. If you don't like being with someone then there is no point of being with them. You're friends don't understand and neither does he because they're immature and stupid, which makes sense for that age. In a few years they'll be a little bit better, probably. Hopefully. Don't go around looking for a boyfriend. It usually doesn't come that way. People usually get into bad relationships that way. If you don't feel comfortable with someone then there is no point of being with them. If you're with someone who doesn't understand that you're your own person and you need some space, then that person is an idiot and is not worth your time. Just ignore him, I guess. Make it seem that it's really over and he's not on your mind at all and you're over him completley. It will make him feel discouraged and he'll give up faster.
Michael is right. You're only 13. You're not gonna find the right guy for a while, so don't get all crazy about finding him now.
Why is he acting so immature? He's within a year or two 13 (or so I hope, since he was dating you), and he's a boy. Guys take longer to mature around that age... it starts evening out more in the late teens and early twenties, but until then guys that are your age will act less mature than you do (generally speaking) My solution to an ex who went past the boundaries I had laid out, repeatedly? I stopped talking to him. Maybe not the best solution, but he wouldn't back off when I asked him to, it was very frustrating.
