GOOD NEWS,,we almost are officially not parents anymore!!

but dont count our chickens b4 they hatch,,,DFCS,,are bein cocksuckers,,so we havin to formerly file a petition to relinquish our parental rights...

tis ok tho,, least they have gave up on the reunification plan an have backed off to only wantin child support...

child support my ass,, id rather pay a lawyer than pay them cocksuckers..
the formal hearing is in june...

funny,,, so many ways that this is wrong,,the system sucks folks,,dont matter how good a parent ya are,,you are ALWAYS gonna be the bad guy..



well FUCKEM,,I HAVE PRINCIPALS,,AN WRONG IS WRONG...
We will win!!!

we hope...

keep yer fingers crossed....
luv~n~lite
hilly~dilly~da psycho bitch~an clan...:sunglasse

 

uh, sorry i dunno what to say to ya, good luck? seems trite. i know it's been rough for you guys, sorry it all had to come to this. prayin for ya...

 

I can't remember how old your boy is.

 

probably 16 by now, old enough to emancipate.

http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=49465&page=1&pp=10

 

there is no emancipatation type procolomations in this state..

however,, if he wernt safely tucked under the states wing for his abuse of us,, we coulda just accepted what he did to his mamma an kicked his lilly white ass out at 17..

but allas,, grate8 is correct,, hes 16 an evilly corupupted by babylon,, an babylon is eatin it up..


yeah an that sig is profound ,, "look what we made,,"

 

I use to fight with my mom although she wasn't innocent in our fighting and neather was I ..I would still not ever kick my kid on the kurb.

 

if your child beat you so bad that you wound up in the hospital,,an then wound up with severe emotional trauma ya would take him back in??

wow thats admirable or STUPID of ya,, I mean even the arresting officer said,, "wouldnt want ya to be the family we all see dead on the 6 oclock news,,dont let him back in"..

So ya see we didnt have the chance to "kick him out" he fled number 1,,number 2,,if we had had the chance to kick him out we would have...

There is no place for society created predatorial animals in my world,,much less my home... My son,, began going away 4 years ago,,the animal you an the system are calling my son is a product of all thats evil in this world an we no longer claim it....

thats just the wayit is

 

How did he get like this? Just asking.

 

sorry hillbilly, i remember when you posted about your son beating katie mae. it was pretty severe. i don't know what i'd do in your situation, but i pray that i never find out

kathy

 

Much power to you and your family. I remember your post a while back about his attack on his mum.

One day hopefully he will learn. He is still young. 16. At 16 i was a different person to who i am now. Hope to him that he will learn to see the kindness in life and get over his anger.

This must be hard for all parties involved *hugs*

 

Damn man... I'm speechless. That's insane.

 

I can't say I could ever do that even if my kid did beat me up id still try to show him some understanding and get him some help before I dissowned him. Teenagers are very missunderstood. Im not saying your doing the wrong thing for your family because only you know your own situation etc so to each his own and good luck. I just know it's such a pivital time of change and that the only thing I ever wanted as a teen was to feel like my parents cared about what was happening to me and what I enjoyed and respected me and didn't hurt my feelings...as I was still very egotistical and it really was all about me still. My parents showed me the anger I showed them. I had to learn on my own to rid that. I wish my parents would have showed me how to rid that by them ridding theirs..mostly my mom. I know being kicked out at 16 is very harsh and can have really really deep effects for a very long time for him. For me I would rather deal with the now of it and not have my son angry with me for the rest of his life...I dont know...I feel bad for kids under so much stress and their families.

 

once again,, we never got the chance to kick him out,, the system took him into custody before we had the chance...

but now they want us to subsidise that in wich they have chose to do...

an i will not support evil,,,specially not when its sheltering its spawn...

 

^^boy, i'm glad you're not mad at me...

 

Sure you can say that but one of your boys did not almost kill you, HHB son beat Katie Mae almost to death she spent alot of time healing from the physical side of it. HHB is not an evil or vile man for his words, his son is out of control and he has the right to not like him. I am sure that HHB holds love for him but you can love something and still not like it or it's actions. I know if a kid of mine beat my wife almost to death I shure would not want to support it.

 

yeah, i know what his son did - i can't blame him one bit for bein more than a LITTLE upset.

of course he'd never have cause to be mad at me like that anyways - there's no hurtin like the hurtin a 'loved one' can put on ya

 

This is all just sad beyond belief. HHB, I hope you, and Katie mae and your son can all find a way to heal from this horrible thing.

I hope you can someday (maybe not today or tomorrow) find a way to forgive him (remember, forgiveness is NOT saying "What you did is OK." Forgiveness is "What you did was NOT OK, but I will not allow your actions to harm me emotionally anymore, so I release you from my hatred."

This may be a long time coming, but I hope all of you can heal. I hope the child will have a place to become a man safely, also, if that is now at all possible. I hope Katie Mae can heal, and I hope your anger will someday be abated. It may take some time.

I am so sorry your family had to go through such a horrible ordeal.

Blessings and healing,

Maggie

 

*sigh* Its so sad. How is mama doing? Do mind me asking how she feels about it all? Is she coping ok now? I can't imagine the pain I'd be going though with having to deal with the child I raised... the baby I held, turning around and hurting me someday. She is a strong women for surviving this! Good luck to you two and I hope your family gets the peace and healing it deserves.

 

With love and light the path that you are now all on and left to deal with was not of your choice nor was it of your making.

Sometimes there is no reason for a child to turn other than that they do and the end result is that of the chaos that they have caused with no healing.

I send you all light that you are a unit that withstands what has happened and heal.

I also hope that this man child gets the real help he needs to heal and that he can never hurt you and your family again.