I think you are right and have been doing that, just difficult to get the same satisfaction when it is slow but maybe just takes time
I have had 'proper blow jobs' from some very experienced women in the past, it's always been the same.
It would probably be you that would be in for some shit ;)
I haven't had GF in years until recently and used to masturbate a lot, with tight grip and fast, and obviously this is different to how girls give...
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