I really dont think a different vibrator will make a difference. It is all about letting evrything go. Letting your mind go to what i call "that...
if this is something he is not comfortable with it may take time for him to get used to it. Take one step at a time, it may take awhile but you...
you need to tell him what you want. And if it is stll too hard when he does it just let him know you want it softer. Set up a "safe" word so he...
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