i personally masturbate a lot, my first time was so bad and made me so uncomfortable even after we tried again later. I stopped having sex and...
i have heard of this happening to a few other virgin males, i cant pinpoint what causes it but i can tell you you aren't alone. what i can help...
Nothing better then a nice tamed bush
In other words yes, i would start by playing with yourself before you jump right in, find a position that"s comfortable for you and see how you feel.
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