The advice I would have given myself was to not worry so much and chill out more. And find a way to get to Woodstock!!
They disappoint you probably because they don't have the same values we did in the 60's and 70's. We were the ones that started the value system...
They are afraid of people they don't understand, and most of all, don't want to to try to understand for fear of rejection from their peers....
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