my bf and I want to have a 3some with another girl. how does one 'find' someone?how does one approach someone about a 3some?
Do want to have a bi experience with another female or does your bf just want another chick to fuck? You should be the one who is in total control of this situation. You might have a bi curious friend who would like to have a discrete experience with you and your bf. Do you know anyone from a gym or pub that might be a candidate?
How do you find someone???- well, ASK! Normally you would develop some sort of intertest in someone, then find the intimate moment to ask ... you may want to talk about the subject first ..and then ask ..or you may insinuate by acting sensuous ..like undressing, kissing ..holding hands ..etc. Be sure you are bi and that you have the courage to stand on your turf. Its not easy to find a fully compatible bi female friend. Go to places qhere people are happy ... partying ...or where some nudity is allowed ...then build from there.
If you want the "third" to be a male, just ask one. If you want the "third" to be a female, I haven't got a clue as to go about securing one. Suggestion, ask here on this forum. (edited: sorry, I didn't see the reference to "girl" in your post until I went back and read it again)
My wife, whose is bi, and me are looking at the moment, but having trouble finding anyone local to us. it can be difficult!
Wonderful idea. You are in control. You both have to like the girl obviously, so try to meet someone at a place where you two like to hang out.
Might be easier going for a 4som as couples wanting to swing seem more prevelent than single bi females
Dunno about with other females, but I live in a very conservative place and there are alot of bi girls around... From reading online sex forums I would suggest if you're gonna go for a girl, have the girl bring it up. "Have you ever been with another girl?" that way the third party doesn't think the guy is trying to cheat. If its a second guy have the guy ask, that way the guy doesn't get any funny ideas in his head about this girl trying to transition to him from guy a. Also avoid doing this too many times with the same person, at least without setting some rules, guidelines and boundries. 3 somes fuck with alot of relationships but don't have to, most of the time its just because people aren't smart about how they go about it. Oh, and I can also say, 2 guys and a girl is great, I only have 2 hands, one mouth and a dick to get a girl off with, but with an extra set of hands and a mouth (and another penis is the girl is up for DP) if the two guys work as a team all the major erogenous zones on the female body can be stimulated at once providing powerful orgasms. Its just fun to watch a loved one riggle in orgasmic ecstasy you know? -MOR
I know I want to try one. I want to be the other girl, I want to experiance it. If I was asked to be a 3rd person in sex. I'd say yes. Im a open and free soul. I would mind if I was asked. I'd be turned on. Thats my advice. I say ask a hippy like myself with a open and free mind like mine. I give my peace and I give my love.
