5 Years Younger? Advice Please!

Okay there's this guy I know and I am in love with his personality, I feel like he's that one guy I've been waiting for a long time. But he's flipping 15!!! ;; I feel in an awkward position now. What do you people think? Maybe my Grandma was right, I am going to burn in hell. XD

 

I think 15 is too young, you have to wait until he is 18 my dear!

 

That's what I thought. He is perfect and I can't have him...>_<

 

you are 20? It's only a few years!

 

I know. It's just I'm afraid that it's another lost cause. Cause if I wait for him until he's 18 I can't tell him not to date, that's not right. So he might find someone else and blaw, blaw... It sucks cause I happen to have this sort of luck all the time.

Ahhh!!! It's the temptation!! Damnit!

But I'll do the right thing. You know I will. =) I just wish he was three years older beacause I swear he meets all the checks on my wishlist! If I do ever get the chance I'm going to blame it all on him.

 

age is just un illusiun. it duesn't meen anyzeeng.

 

it does when you can get jail time.

(mothering here too!)

 

zees ige, by Gregeriuon celender, is just un ID put on you by sumeune ilse. your reel 'ige' is igeless.

 

duwn vit zee system 'zee mon' subjogetes intu your breen.

 

15y/o guy... ummm... wait. He is still a kid. How can you be sure that he won't change for3 years or something?! I mean... Come on... You are a women and he IS a child!

 

Hang on a second. First of all, dating a 15 year old is no big deal, you won't do jail time, trust me. You love him, what's holding you back?? Asking him out!!

"He's perfect, and i can't have him..." Just tell him you really really like him, and he'll melt . The only problem is that he will change a lot in a few years, that could be a major bump in the road, but that doesn't change the fact that you CAN have him.

 

I'm sorry, I just don't see what a 15 year old has to offer a 20 year old. What is on your wishlist anyway?

 

What is with you posting this gibberish everywhere. What does it matter what you have to say, when no one can understand you anyway.

 

Lol, true true.

 

Ditto.

Are you freaking out about what to do with your own life and wishing you were still back in highschool with no pressure on you to be an adult?

Are you frustrated with men your own age, and wanting a child that you can mold to do as you say?

And, yes, if you were a guy with a crush on a 15 year old girl, I'd be still be asking what the hell is wrong with you, except that then I would be more likely to assume that it's entirely sexually motivated, since the 15 year old is not emotionally savvy enough to avoid being taken advantage of by a smooth talking 20 year old.

 

He offers his opinion and insight without belittling others.

 

He will have all the things on your checklist now because who he is right now is who he thinks he is and he has not been tested through experience yet. Please think it through.

When I dated a younger man, he fit all my expectations and it was wonderful at first. But people grow, and are constantly being proved wrong by new experiences. This takes time.

You'll be in for some significant changes in the following years.

 

I don't agree with this. She's only 20 also. We all learn. I certainly didn't know how great my influence was on a younger guy nor did I even think twice about it at the time.

 

Well someone at 15 is not equipped to handle a woman anyways... even though she still might feel like a teenager herself.

 

It could be an early motherhood feelings.