Hello, I'm new. A friend got married 3 months again, he recently asked my advice. 3 months after marriage, his wife is still a virgin, she won't allow him fuck her, she preferred sucking his cock any time he wants to fuck. His is getting tired. What should he do? Any advice?
He's doing well just having her give him a bj. She's probably doing things in stages - might let him give her oral sometime & gradually get to intercourse. Maybe he hasn't got enough brownie points yet to get what he wants?
This must be a good friend if you go to the trouble of becoming a member to a forum and asking about one of your friends' problems. But whoever's got the partner who won't fuck, only suck - give her time, I do feel it's a bit abnormal, not to say bad form not to have sex on your wedding night. I mean,even if you're an ultra-orthodox Christian, Jew or Muslim, isn't that THE day you get to poke someone/let someone poke you without it being a sin? She might be vaginistic or have some kind of psychological issues that need to be addressed. Again, assuming she actually does have a vagina in the first place and isn't hiding any dicks down there, hoping you'll, I mean your friend won't find out. If I were him I'd try to step up the communication as this wouldn't seem to bode well for the rest of what, at that stage, you might hope to be a lasting relationship. It's not that she's now 'obliged' to put out because she's married, if she doesn't want to. But my alarm bells would be a-ringing. I've had girlfriends who in the beginning would only want to give me head but didn't want me to fuck them. But that's been a couple of weeks or dates at most. Most have luckily been like me and when they meet someone who's vaguely enticing sexually get that out of the way as soon as possible. I don't know, it's kind of a letting go, ceasing to hold anything back when you pump someone/allow yourself to get pumped. Maybe she's somehow incapable of doing/allowing this and needs to look at why. That said, I'm sure there's quite a few married guys who would happily trade with you. The most common complaint being that she won't at all, or less frequently and with ever diminishing enthusiasm suck your dick.
I dont know if this is celebrated much out side of the south west USA and Mexico , I did not know if others hear would know about cinco de mayo . Its perty much an excuse to drink lots of beer . http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinco_de_mayo A guy can get his virgin wife drunk , get her cloth off and find out he married a man . I will stop before the chingoss ( fists ) fly .
Is she very religious? What are her opinions on contraceptives? Does she have a history of sexual abuse?
