There is no real agreement, blessing, approval, permission, whatever you want to call it between my wife and I, but I simply stated that I am not going to punish myself or deny myself my bisexual needs and that I'd rather be upfront and honest with her than go behind her back, and informed her that I am now officially(but discreetly) looking for a likeminded guy or guys. I know she's not thrilled, but I feel better telling her. A new beginning.
Definitely better to be open about it than not. So good on you for telling her. Of course, now she gets to provide her views on it. Hoping it works out for you. But be warned, some fallout is possible.
I appreciate the concern. However, this isn't the first time we've been down Honey,I'm Bisexual and I need a Guy Blvd. Its been ongoing since before we got married 30 years ago. Just reaching a new level of honesty about it, as I am no longer holding it, or me back.