A New Spark

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Smiling_jordan, Aug 31, 2008.

  1. Smiling_jordan

    Smiling_jordan Member

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  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    If you going to be going off with this other chick then you owe it to your current girlfriend to break it off. (just a warning, if anything happens with this other chick and you haven't broken up with your girlfriend. Dont tell this board. We are known for attacking cheaters)

    You should NEVER stay in a relationship that your unhappy in.
     
  3. fricknfrack

    fricknfrack Member

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    real bright new connection you had a connection but no communication you owe the ex an explanation and its not her fault its yours for lack there of . Grow some balls and fess up and realise that cheating is wrong. Gee i wonder how shes going to feel does the current one know you cheated hows she going to feel cheated and if so how are you going to feel ?? cheated???

    I can go on Think before you act dumbass
    If your not happy in a relationship maybe its because your not happy with yourself rethink what can i do with myself to make things work. What can we do together to make things work.
     
  4. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    it's the nature of a flirtation to be a spark. After 2 years, a relationship is on simmer. That's right, and what it is supposed to do, the crazy in love stuff has to be nurtured, and going out and getting the attention from someone else is not feeding the love at home.
    So your question for yourself is what do you want out of a relationship, and if it is not growth, don't get involved with anyone for more than a month. and keep chasing that high, with no substance.
     
  5. Smiling_jordan

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    I didnt cheat, i dont cheat! we just talked...and talked, and laughed and had heaps of fun. Im a bit against cheating my self. If i leave the current gf its not going to be for this other girl (did i mention she lives for brisbane in 4 weeks), she just made me realise that this realationship is not what i want. Im 20, she wants to act like we are married and 40. The fun is gone! but its not that simple to leave.
     
  6. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Sure it is, just say that it's over, I called off a relationship of 4 years with a snap of my fingers when I figured out he didn't work for me.
     
  7. BornFree

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    cause your a brat like that.
     
  8. new-guy

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    lool thats a burn ^ now thats a women with power lol

    and that connection feeling is called friend ship
    any way dont give up on ur current girl its not right
    question what do u like so much with this new girl and what is ur current one missing.
    spice the relationship up a little u sound like ur in ur mid life crises
    or see if ur gf is up for a multy relation (ok that ones for the lolz JK)
    i had the same problem with my girl we talked about it i got smacked for my though (go figure) and we change some things and spiced up our sex life and my ass still hurts lol
     

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