A question for the girls

A recent conversation has me wondering about myself. I like for a guy to be forceful with me--not abusive, just forceful. I would never want to be with a guy that lacked the confidence to take what he wanted from me.

I always assumed that I was normal but now I'm not so sure. I know that I have submissive, and somewhat masochistic tendencies, but I always thought I was in the mainstream when it came to my attraction to confident, strong, take-what-they-came-for kind of men.

Example: if during really hot sex, a guy grabbed a handful of my hair, pulled my head back, and said, "get on your knees baby, I'm gonna cum in your fucking mouth," I would gladly give him what he wanted. Even if I didn't want him to do it, I would be really turned on.

Honestly, am I strange?

 

i wouldn't say yr strange, that would be alot of fun. if your with a girl who doesn't like to be submissive it could cause trouble

 

sex is about individual tendencies and about how two people communicate with each other.

 

I am exacly the same way.. that's why I'm married to a man that will tell me to get on my knees and suck his cock out of the middle of nowhere and gladly I will get up and do it... I love men like that, I want to be told what to do... I want to be treated like a little slut.. (by him)

 

i do want to do it but my gf wouldn't like it

 

you might just want to ask her if she would like it...
yeah I don't reccomend anyone just grabbing their girlfriends head and telling them to suck it... might not work so well.. lol. she might like it though, talk to her about it..

 

mmmm i love doing that, though im not sure i'd love doing it if she wanted it that way ALL the time. i do prefer for my woman to take charge every now and again.

 

oh I agree... I like to take chrage a tie him up instead and tell him what I want him to do to me but I've found being submissive is truly my role...

 

its kinda hard as she doesn't like to talk about sexual activities much which is a pain

 

She may not even know she likes it. There are quite a few things that I found gross or weird until I experienced it.

Oh, and thanks greengoddess, we're obviously a lot alike.

 

yeah she might as it took a while for me to even get a blow job

 

I know, I've noticed in many threads... lol
and I agree.. it's like anal, at first I was scared as hell to try it, now it's my favorite pass time... j/k
I do like it a hell of alot though and never thought I would.

 

how old is she?
are you her first?

 

shes 20 and yes i am

 

hhmm I would've thought she'd be younger...
well that's probably why she's like that, just go very slow with her then and talk ALOT because she probably has no clue what she wants in bed and wants she doesn't.. it will help her alot to experiment right now...

 

we do experiment we've been together 3 years she just doen't like talking about it quite shy when it comes down to it

 

oh well, hopefully she'll come around...
for your sake anyways..

 

Here's a not-very-scientific-but-cool

sexually submissive test

I scored a 96.

 

thanks for the help any ways morgan and godess

 

i really like a guy to be aggresssive and "have his way with me" but not all the time. i like being aggressive too so its good especially if the guy finds that hot for me to be dominant and boss him around at times. lol but its such a turn on for me when a guy isnt afraid to throw me on the bed or something like that