Aaaah, look at all the lonely people . . .

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by SunFree, Nov 30, 2004.

  1. SunFree

    SunFree Member

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    Who's feeling lonely out there right now? I've found myself especially prone to this "feeling" thing lately...
     
  2. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    I am. Nothin I can do about it though.
     
  3. 8footsativa_chik

    8footsativa_chik Waka Chang-Chang

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    Awww i feel lonely. It sux. Im hoping that soon i wont be alone and i'll have someone to share my love with.
     
  4. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    I'm very lonely. I have a boyfriend but things just aren't working anymore

    even when he's around I feel lonely... I don't know what to do. I'd rather be with someone I didn'tl ike than be completely alone. I know that's pathetic, but it's true.
     
  5. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Doncha just love being stuck in he sameeeeeee position.
     
  6. DejaVoo

    DejaVoo stardust

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    well i dont think of it THAT way. I mean i havent had a boyfriend for a while now...but i havent really wanted one either. Its weird...I havent wanted a real 'boyfriend' for like almost 2 years..and in those 2 years alot of guys always were calling me and bugging me to go out with them but I didn't wanna get tied down and I didn't really like those guys that much anyways! but NOW...I'm kinda wanting to actualy HAVE a boyfriend..and now NO guys call me..haha how ironic! Doesnt mean i'm lonely though, I still got my family/friends! Plus, its not like i NEED a boyfriend. I know some guy and he always complains about being LONELY...well he shouldnt THINK like that! I just see it as...single waiting for a dude cool enough!
     
  7. DejaVoo

    DejaVoo stardust

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    By the way 8footsativa...those bunnies are SOO CUTE!
     
  8. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    I'm not alone but I still feel lonely... :(
     
  9. xZx

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    im lonely :(
     
  10. MidnightSun

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    i'm sooo emotionally confused that i don't wanna be with anyone, but i don't wanna feel lonely anymore!

    i just like to be surrounded by people...or a person!
     
  11. dylanzeppelin

    dylanzeppelin daydream believer

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    that's exactly how i feel all today it just seems to get worse and worse.. doesn't help that i watched a depressing movie, that made it worse and it was raining like cats and dogs as well.. i feel so hopeless
     
  12. 8footsativa_chik

    8footsativa_chik Waka Chang-Chang

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    haha thanx
     
  13. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    I am happy to say that I am not lonely at all! I'm not in a relationship either (by choice). I am content just to be ME without having to answer to ANYBODY! It's such an exhilarating feeling!
     
  14. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    yeah i'm lonely too. but i'm not sure if i want to be with anyone now, i've so much going on in my head..but i could do with some lovin'... ;)
     
  15. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    *sigh* a lil
     
  16. austin69

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    I feel lonely, espescially at school, where eveyone thinks my best friend and i are retarded cuz we're anti-war and for peace....
     
  17. i_love_sex

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    I feel lonely, all of my friends have boyfriends or girlfriends and i'm the only one who doesn't. Nikki has Andy, Nick has Tracy, Bri has Joey, Liz has Glen, Kim has Chad, Jackie has Carl, Shauna has Josh, Alicia even has Mike. I have no one and whenever I hang out with them I always feel out of place completly.
     
  18. showmet

    showmet olen tomppeli

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    yea and i feel like i'm becoming totally paranoid in my relationship.... actually started a long time ago but i think i'm just realising it now.... seriously stupid things go through my mind.... i have to stop.

    i know most people never read these last replies... but how the hell do i get off this? jealousy and paranoia are such horrible things

    peace
     
  20. CapnQuisp

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    I've dealt with paranoia in my relationship, thinking all sorts of terrible things about my girlfriend almost all the time, like I couldn't turn my brain off. I've come to believe that in my case, paranoia was a manifestation of guilt feelings that I had personally, particularly over the ending of my first marriage. When I entered a new relationship sub-consciously I was afraid I would screw it up somehow. I feel now that I transfered my fear onto my girlfriend, and I was always carefully scrutinizing her actions to "catch her" doing something that would be injurious to our relationship. This also made me believe that I wanted out of the relationship, and all I can say is I'm glad I toughed it out. I finally reached a point where I had to acknowledge to myself that I had been, in fact, really silly and yes, sometimes the truth hurts, but I guess it's also true that "pride goeth before a fall." We've made peace, I'm feeling better lately, and the paranoid thoughts are being replaced by peaceful, romantic, and blissful thoughts, which is more like the me my sweetheart and I both know and love. Hope this helps. Good luck to you!
     

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