My mother is so annoying. As some of you may know I live with my Mom and Step Father, ever since she called the cops on me things have been getting worse. Well I suppose my Dad didn't pay half my medical bills, these including my counsler and shit and he was completly against it AS WAS I! My mom put me in therapy or whatever just so my Dad would have to pay half, you'd have to know her to realize this. She pulls BS moves like this all the time. (Now I understand my Dad should help pay medical bills but some are just a bunch of bullshit, my Dad is not brainwashing me and making me believe this, actually the only one to complain about this shit is my mother. My Dad doesn't give a shit about that, he has money to throw but wont waste it on her bullshit.) Well my Dad started blowing up my phone this morning and finally I picked up, I suppose my Mom called him this morning saying I couldn't come over anymore because he was going against his obligations. He was confused but I suppose my mom tried to summon him to a "small claims court" or whatever and at the post office he just refused to recieve any of the papers. Well my Mom was told that HE CAN do that for some odd reason, so now she's all pissy and I think it's funny but what I don't think is funny is that I can't see my dad. I'm 16 yrs old, have a mind of my own but because he actually has no legal custoday and she is my legal gaurdian she can say no to my visits with him. I see him 2 days a week, was supposed to go see him tommorow but NOPE. Fucking bitch. I mainly need to vent but do you guys even think this is right? I'd love to move in with my dad but I wouldn't have nearly as much as I do now, I know that sounds bad but hell he is rarely ever home anyways. :[ I can't fuck up, if I even raise my voice to her they'll lock my up in DYS untill I'm 18, the probation really has my nuts tied to floss. My Dad was really worried because he's scared I'll mouth off to her and she'll just turn me over to my PO as an unruly child, sad thing is she would do that. I don't know what to do.... ??? >:|
After the age of 12 you can see who ever you want !! Your mother is wrong, if you want to go on the stand and say you would like to visit Dad 24 days out of 30 mom will have to live with that nothing she can do . I'm a step parent and am going through similar situations in F court. I hope u understand , if not feel free to PM me That was a big exaggeration.
Your father needs to contact a lawyer, or family mediator. At 16, you really should not have to be stressing over any of this, and sorry to hear that you are. Your father not paying half the medical costs is not helping matters unfortunately. While he may believe that he has valid reasons not to, unfortunately you are paying for it. Not with money, but having to deal with the fallout from your mom. Maybe he could just give her the money and be done with it. It is really worth keeping the $$ to put you through this crap? No, it isn't. It is essentially an adult pissing match, with you stuck in the middle. It's pretty standard drama for divorced/separated parents; sad but true. Look at it this way, you are 16 years and in a couple years you will be able to move out on your own and decide what kind of relationship you want with your parents. After 16 years....two more should be a breeze! Until then, just keep your head low and try not to get caught in the crossfire of parental tirades. Good luck!
